what to do about sister???

[Dakeva]

Hi all...
Everyone always has such great input hoping maybe some of you can give me some good
advise on this:
I have a younger sister who is 17 (im 24). We where never really close because of the 6
1/2 year age difference until about 6 months ago when I helped her outa some trouble.
After that we started to talk bout everything and I learned alot about her. I found out she
was pretty much in to the same shit as me for the most part (she does a great job of hiding
all the shit she does our thinks shes an angel).
Well the problem is she been dating this guy for 2 years. He is for the most part a good
guy and I like him and hang out with him once in a while. The problem is that he has
become a rather large name in the drug game. I mean alot of people know his business and
he likes that (it the hole scarface thing I think).
See on one hand he is basically not any different then I was when I was 18. On the other
hand I have seen alot really bad shit happen to people who run game. I mean its my baby
sister and I cant let anything bad happen to her. I cant tell her what he does is wrong cause
I dont believe that.
Thanks for any advise

 

[raverdad]

one thing to realise is that the bigger or more well know you are in this game, the more attention is drawn to you. and thats not what a person needs. it becomes an ego trip. and then you get feeling like your really something, well, thats when the problems happen. you get popular and start forgetting and get careless , that what your doing is a felony. and the cops/feds don't get you from something recently you've done. they hang your ass from things 6 months to a year past, depending on how there case has developed. and when they do come down , and its only a matter of time in all reality, they will probably have everything from pics to recordings of transactions, and who ever is in those is an accessory to the fact , and will go to jail under the same charges.
and you better have a bunch of money to blow , cause bonding out costs, lawyers cost . Example: i have a friend here who him and his g/f used to be in the game. not real biggies, but , as the old song "smugglers blues" goes ,...the lure of easy money has a very strong appeal...
well they would clear $ 500. some weekends. well , popularity and carelessness, happened. they ended up being taped recorded talking to some friends ( they were informants )and sold them some beans. and the cops built a case against them and one evening , raided there apt. took them both to jail . after its all said and done, cause it was there first offense, and they didn't have but a few beans when the raid happened, the got house arrest for 6months, there legal bills have came up to $15000. they get drug tested at random times. they are constantly now looking over there shoulders in fear .
Its a gamble , and you have to decide if the consequences are really worth the risk.
i pray that you sister doesn't get caught up in it, if things go bad. sorry if I 'm sounding so doom and gloom, but this is reality . and reality bites .

 

[Dakeva]

See thats why I worry for her. He has already benn busted once bout 6 months ago for possession with intent and is now on 2 year probation after they dropped the charge down to felony possession. I dont really care if he stops selling. Just want her to be more mature about his business and keep my sister away form any trouble.
A good friend of mine got shot in a drug robbery so I know the type of shit that could happen. thats what scares me..
Thanx
David