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What is YOUR sexual fetish?

onuki

onuki

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Most people have them, so share yours!

I have a thing for guys with beards (not the Santa kind of ones, but the not-shaved-for-some-days kind). Unfortunately in this country, the gay guys here have a strange perception "HAIR = BAD" so... UAP to me!!

In fact, I am ONLY attracted to guys with le facial hair =D=D

What about you? Any other beard fans here? :)
 
It's November, so I've been letting the mustache grow ;) Haha, but it's like an unwritten rule! Sorry, though...not gay :\

What is my fetish? This is going to sound weird/creepy, but ass cleavage. If I see it in public, or better yet in private from a lover, I go to a 10+ on the libido scale. Oh god...
 
hah :D

I never actually pay attention to the ass, it's always the torso-face that counts for me, haha.

And I do have a thing for guys with stomachs too (but not fat).. :D
 
Does having a pulse count as a fetish? ;)

I guess I am the Neapolitan of attraction, no one thing is supreme. Some day she may comeout of the bathroom wearing a wife beater and jeans and BAM, I have a new fetish.

It would probably be easier to make a list of turn offs for me. Long acrylic nails with little murals painted on them would sit quite high on that list.

I guess the only consistence is intelligence. Most girls I fall for are smart.

I don't think you are alone with the gay beard fetish. I'm waiting for Jamsyd to wander in here and start drooling :)
 
I love fucking a girl when shes still wearing her panties. can be kinda awkward if shes not into it too though. other than that, little tits and a firm ass are always nice. and i dont know if this was a fluke, but the last girl I was with started massaging my balls with her feet while I jerked off on her and omg greatest orgasm ever
 
rincewindrocks said:
I love fucking a girl when shes still wearing her panties. can be kinda awkward if shes not into it too though. other than that, little tits and a firm ass are always nice. and i dont know if this was a fluke, but the last girl I was with started massaging my balls with her feet while I jerked off on her and omg greatest orgasm ever
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Dude I am the exact opposite! Mentally, I love the idea of being "completely naked" during the sex. Any reason exactly why you like them left on? I see this a lot in porn, and never really get it.
 
well, i certainly dont mind if we're completely naked, and i dont like any other clothing (usually), but like the title said, its a fetish, about as explainable as a phobia
 
I've always had a bit of a foot fetish. I'm not interested in trampling or stockings, or even necessarily having feet involved with the sex. I suppose I just attach a certain value to them, some girls IMO have cute feet and some don't. I wouldn't require that a girl has what I consider to be attractive feet for me to date them or anything like that, though it certainly wouldn't hurt. It's just a part of the overall attractiveness factor of a woman to me.

I've always felt weird about having this fetish though TBH. I feel like I would weird girls out if I shared this with them. In fact, I don't think I've ever really shared this with anyone before. I think this fetish originates from an idea that I got into my head when I was a kid that feet were sort of gross and it was impolite to not wear shoes or socks. Over time, I guess it's sort of caused a similar reaction to if a random girl took her shirt off in front of me or something. I mean, impolite yes but not entirely unwelcome lol. I think I have largely become desensitized to this over the years though because during the summer girls always wear sandals or go barefoot so it would be the same as if girls walked around topless - I'd probably walk around with a raging hard-on for the first month but over time that forbidden aspect would go away and it wouldn't seem so strange to see girls topless.
 
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QuasiStoned said:
I've always had a bit of a foot fetish. I'm not interested in trampling or stockings, or even necessarily having feet involved with the sex. I suppose I just attach a certain value to them, some girls IMO have cute feet and some don't. I wouldn't require that a girl has what I consider to be attractive feet for me to date them or anything like that, though it certainly wouldn't hurt. It's just a part of the overall attractiveness factor of a woman to me.

I've always felt weird about having this fetish though TBH. I feel like I would weird girls out if I shared this with them. In fact, I don't think I've ever really shared this with anyone before. I think this fetish originates from an idea that I got into my head when I was a kid that feet were sort of gross and it was impolite to not wear shoes or socks. Over time, I guess it's sort of caused a similar reaction to if a random girl took her shirt off in front of me or something. I mean, impolite yes but not entirely unwelcome lol. I think I have largely become desensitized to this over the years though because during the summer girls always wear sandals or go barefoot so it would be the same as if girls walked around topless - I'd probably walk around with a raging hard-on for the first month but over time that forbidden aspect would go away and it wouldn't seem so strange to see girls topless.
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hahaha, well I can't stand the sight of feet.. actually everytime i hooked up with someone, socks were firmly adjusted on feet! haha :D
 
There is a difference between a turn on and a fetish. Not to be nitpicky but I think what a lot of people are describing are just average turn ons, not an actual sexual fetish.

Bondage, submission and helplessness are a big fetish for me. Usually if I look at porn/erotica it's more of the fetish/s&m variety than sex. Straight sex porn doesn't do much for me. I haven't yet really explored this idea with a guy too much as most guys I wouldn't trust enough to allow to tie me up. But it really arouses me, the idea of being tied up and made to be the sexual "slave" of someone I really love. In a loving and gentle way of course. I want to be teased and tormented until I'm begging for it, and then when I can't take anymore and am near tears from the begging I want to be released and have the hottest most passionate sex of my life. MMmmm yes.. thats definitely my fetish.

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facial hair (stubble) and eyes.

though i do have a touch fetish... I like touching....though touch on me is big on my scale too.

Alot of fetishes (too many) but those are a couple.
 
It's a fetish if you CANNOT be with someone who does not have what you're attracted to, so yea like MynameisnotDeja said most of these are just turn-ons not really fetishes...
 
jiggling.

like when youre having sex or anything the best thing to watch is the butt or the tits just go crazy. but somehow im still absolutely horrified by big girls.
 
skeettls said:
It's a fetish if you CANNOT be with someone who does not have what you're attracted to, so yea like MynameisnotDeja said most of these are just turn-ons not really fetishes...
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I agree. "touching" is not a sexual fetish... lol. I think most people like touching, at least at some point during intercourse. ;)
 
What most of you have descirbed doesn't really pass the line of a "fetish".

I enjoy having sex with a SO whilst she is on her period, because then I like to pretend that it is her first time again.

I like to put a soft-lined belt around her neck and pull it tight to restrict her breathing during sex.
 
Not sure if mine technically count as fetishes since they're not at all mandatory IRL, mostly just fantasy for masturbation.

I have always had a thing for growth; growing up it was giants, and as I hit puberty this transitioned to macrophilia on a small scale (say the 7-12 feet tall range) and also came to include breast growth, very large natural breasts, and the same for asses to a lesser extent. They are all turn-ons, including tall girls of all shapes; but the only one that has carried over to real life has been the breast fetish, although it has never been the deciding factor in any of my relationships. I just love big boobs! :)
 
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