What does Turn On really mean?

[stolemyheart87]

Since being on the dating scene for a while, I had a recent chat with a guy and he goes and tells me "if im being straight up with you, just the thought of you turns me on. is that bad?" So I assumed right off the bat "He wants sex" but he says "well sure it can, but idk. to me, turning on means that i want you sexually, but it doesn't just end at sex. i'm turned on by people i want to date, not just hook up with."

So does saying turn on mean sex or no? Who is right and who is wrong here, me or him?

 

[zephyr]

Yes. It means he would like to have coitus with you, or the person he gas made you out to be, at some point in the future.

Its not a bad thing. It doesnt mean he wants just sex. It just means you aren't in the friend zone and there is some physical attractiveness involved.

No biggie just dont read too much into it

 

[stolemyheart87]

Oh I see well I cut him off, so onto the next guy.

 

[Pretty_Diamonds]

Don't you date people to have sex with them eventually?

 

[alpha_centauri]

^
Not everyone does this or wants to, or has sex with people who they just date.

It means you make him horny and that he wants to have sex with you.

 

[belligerent drunk]

^ dating usually means finding a person to have a non-platonic relationship with, no? Physical attraction kinda goes with it.

 

[pofacedhoe]

this is stupid. use google please and talk to people for clarification