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catvixen

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So the guy Im seeing is crazy about weed, he knows anything and everything, has a million different kinds etc. I'm just getting into the scene, probally been doing it for like 6 months on ocasions. But we often get high when we hangout, and I get really weird trips. Like I can't concentrate, cant grasp or conseptualize anything, cant focus or realise what Im doing. This is especially when we like are making out or Im going down on him. Also I paste (my mouth gets really dry) its all very annoying and I feel like Im making a fool of myself.

but just last night he was telling me how when you smoke weed while chewing gum it opens up the poors of your mouth and the smoke is absorbed inside? Which makes peoples mouths gross :( so Im guessing that was a hint?

does this sound normal and does anyone have any insight? thanks :)
 
I assume the gum collects some nasties from the smoke, but I've done this more times than I can count if I don't have a drink on hand. More carcinogens are going to be absorbed by your gums than what you are chewing.
 
catvixen said:
So the guy Im seeing is crazy about weed, he knows anything and everything, has a million different kinds etc. I'm just getting into the scene, probally been doing it for like 6 months on ocasions. But we often get high when we hangout, and I get really weird trips. Like I can't concentrate, cant grasp or conseptualize anything, cant focus or realise what Im doing. This is especially when we like are making out or Im going down on him. Also I paste (my mouth gets really dry) its all very annoying and I feel like Im making a fool of myself.

but just last night he was telling me how when you smoke weed while chewing gum it opens up the poors of your mouth and the smoke is absorbed inside? Which makes peoples mouths gross :( so Im guessing that was a hint?

does this sound normal and does anyone have any insight? thanks :)
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you boyfriend sounds like he smokes a ton of pot/has a high tolerance and someone smoking on occasion for 6 months has none, you simply just getting way too high. smoke what you need not what he needs.
 
catvixen said:
So the guy Im seeing is crazy about weed, he knows anything and everything, has a million different kinds etc. I'm just getting into the scene, probally been doing it for like 6 months on ocasions. But we often get high when we hangout, and I get really weird trips. Like I can't concentrate, cant grasp or conseptualize anything, cant focus or realise what Im doing. This is especially when we like are making out or Im going down on him. Also I paste (my mouth gets really dry) its all very annoying and I feel like Im making a fool of myself.

but just last night he was telling me how when you smoke weed while chewing gum it opens up the poors of your mouth and the smoke is absorbed inside? Which makes peoples mouths gross :( so Im guessing that was a hint?

does this sound normal and does anyone have any insight? thanks :)
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Yes, pot can cause a inability to concentrate as well as super concentration abilitys it depends on the person ,strain of weed and situation I guess.Sometimes smoking out will make me super focused other times I find myself constantly rewinding movies DVR etc. to keep up cause my thoughts are racing. It is no need for alarm. Hope this helps.
 
The simple answer is to smoke less weed at a time - It's silly and counterproductive to get so high that it interferes with making out if that's what you're planning to do. So smoke less. If he asks why, just be honest - you've been winding up so high that it interferes with making out. I can't imagine any guy objecting to that.

The amount of weed that people need to smoke to get to the same point varies widely even among people with similar smoking experience (me: smoking for 6 years, almost daily for 3, yet 40mg (i weighed it) of good headies at once left me feeling a bit higher than i intended*). One gets best results with weed if they smoke enough to get them as high as they want to be for whatever they're doing, and no more than that.

*to spare you the math, that means that smoking once a day, 1/8th would last me ~3 months - that's a bit optimistic though, since i sometimes smoke more than once in a night.
 
Yea agreed. smoke less I think would be the right way to go. You don't wanna make it a bad experience everytime.
 
JUst say hey, i'm, too high to suck yo dick, chill out bro. and jhe\l get the message.

lol
 
I agree with the others ... you really don't need to be smoking as much as he is. If one hit is enough to give you a comfortable lift and make you feel nice, don't hit it twice.
 
I had the same problem, I never really understood why all my friends enjoyed weed so much. I would over think everything and get paranoid and I didn't like the hazy feeling I had for hours after.

It wasn't until I slowed waay down on the smoking, when passing a spliff around I literally have 4 maybe 5 draws and thats enough. It was silly to think I had to keep up with everyone else because my friends are probably thinking 'great more for me!' now.
 
keep a water bottle with you. always healthy and helps with dry mouth for us drug users

i think the other questions were covered fine
 
chainer3k said:
I assume the gum collects some nasties from the smoke, but I've done this more times than I can count if I don't have a drink on hand. More carcinogens are going to be absorbed by your gums than what you are chewing.
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Can you site that info on marijuana and carcinogens... what you just said is completely false. There are anticarcinogens, if that is what you mixed up with the first.
 
There are carcinogens in anything that is combustible, it's a byproduct. I was simply speaking on the fact that chewing gum likely is even less damaging to your mouth while smoking than the smoke itself. If you don't think smoke contains carcinogens you can google it, there are thousands of sources that I could cite from, even here on BL.

The point was, your boyfriend likely isn't as smart as he likes to pretend and it seems you're putting yourself in awkward situations for no reason.
 
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The point was, you're boyfriend likely isn't as smart as he likes to pretend .

^That..

There is no reason you should smoke more than you feel comfortable smoking, or have an extensive knowledge of pot. Because he is passionate about the issue does not mean you have to be.

drymouth is kind of a fact, time things accordingly. haha.
 
socalthizzn said:
you boyfriend sounds like he smokes a ton of pot/has a high tolerance and someone smoking on occasion for 6 months has none, you simply just getting way too high. smoke what you need not what he needs.
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this.
 
Weed will intnsify alot of your feelings. Try taking a puff and waiting a few minutes. repeat this until you are feeling good but not anxious.. I find its better to smoke over regular intervals, then pulling a cone all at once. It depends on the headspace u want to get into.

I think smoking before sex is great, dont stop doing that! You can also try music and mediation/rituals to get the mood going and the conciousness in tune with your physical body. Harness the power of weed, instead of just smoking it...

Oh and lastly, try different methods of ingestion. joints, pipes, bongs, vapes, edibles. Does he get different strains? Try something that is sativa dominant!
 
No idea how true this is but from where i'm from people say chewing gum (or anything) while smoking is bad as when chewing your saliva glands open and the tar and whatever other stuffs in smoke gets in your saliva glands and fucks shit up. Although it seems a bit pointless worrying about your saliva glands when your lungs are probably taking more damage.
 
Doesn't it increase the chances of mouth cancer?

(yo this is only what i've heard - don't want nobody thinking this is a proven scientific fact lol)
 
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