Was he being nice or was he interested?

[musicfuryu]

So, I went to this music conference where you connect with other musicians. I was talking to this musician guy while we were lining up for a conference(not randomly although he spoke to me first while we were next to each other). Even after we stopped speaking for a while, he would sometimes just smile at me or he would stare at me in silence for a while even when we had nothing to say. After that, we would continue talking. He did give me his calling card but I didn't give him my contact info(I just met him). He told me that he was a manager and that he would have managed me if he was not managing his band(he did not even hear me sing). I was surprised because he never even heard me sing or anything.I guess he was just thinking that maybe I had the "looks" for the music industry. It really struck me when he said that and I did not know if he was being irregularly nice or if was interested in me?

 

[Changed]

The way you describe the situation makes him sound pretty creepy-- but that may just be your style of storytelling...

If you're attractive in the least, there's a chance nearly every guy on the Earth would fuck you, if that helps.

 

[K-Dazed]

Yeah, the guy seems like an unprofessional manager and a creep. I wouldn't call him.

 

[opium]

If you're attractive in the least, there's a chance nearly every guy on the Earth would fuck you, if that helps.

true.
the way you said it though, he was either somewhat into you, or at least wanted to get laid.
Some guys just arent good at flirting and may come across as creepy..not our fault if were not experienced with talking to girls

Give him a chance if you had any mutual feelings/attraction back. Phone call cant hurt

 

[Jean-Paul]

If you're attractive in the least, there's a chance nearly every guy on the Earth would fuck you, if that helps.

of course that doesn't help.

this guy might have used that as a way to get to know you, or a way to try to weasel his way into your pants. more likely pants. what can i say. luck of the draw! give it a shot if you want to. only if you think this guy was attractive or you are interested in it for some other reason than management.

what are we supposed to do? assume everyone is a piece of shit except the one we adore for some reason, which might have us adoring a piece of shit? or try to look at it objectively and "fairly" and be an easy mark? or hmm, maybe those are just my two apparent options. i'm sure there's a middle ground for reasonable people...

go with your intuition. =|

 

[!_MDMA_!]

sounds like the whole managing shindig was him buttering you up and he just wants to get laid

any professional manager wouldnt say that without hearing you play