Ventilation

[Mysticalis]

Well now lil bro, you've outdone yourself again. In less than two months, you've gone through 2 ex-girlfriends. I didn't care so much about your first breakup, Gabe. Heather turned into a bitch, developing that holier-than-thou attitude after I scored her beans. I didn't need her being an unappreciative bitch to you and thinking that you and I are here hookups and key to popularity. We were not her stepping stones to getting an ego, so I commend you for ending that relation.
I'm disappointed in how you ended the next relation however. Well, disappointed isn't the word, more like angry. Jessica didn't deserve this shit, man. She was a friend of yours and mine. I seriously thought you two had something together, and I became really good friends with her. Then you start getting shifty, hitting on other girls, both in her face and behind her back. That's just fucked up.
Last weekend was the last straw. I thought you two had made up but boy was I wrong. You couldn't wait until she left so you could jump all over Steph and get her into bed.
I can vividly rmemeber when Jessica came by the house the next day while you were asleep. She got her things and came to me and told me to tell you that she never wanted to see you again in her life. Do you know how fucking painful it is to look into a broken girl's tearful eyes, knowing that the one person she was in love with had cheated on her the night before? Of course not. You'll never relate to the pain because you justify cheating with payback cheating. I saw and felt the pain in her eyes, Gabe, and it hurt like hell. It brought back all the memories of when I found out Brittney had cheated on me and was pregnant with the culprit's baby. Those were memories I pushed back and hoped to forget forever.
Gabe, I'm angry as hell at you, not only because of what you did to Jessica, but because of your newest choice in a companion. What you did will take time and may eventually be forgiven, but I seriously have to question what you see in Steph. Every time I see her with you, she's shitfaced drunk and on other drugs. Jesus Christ, we went to the skating rink, and she fell on her ass so many times, I had to disassociate myself from the two of you. She was drunk as hell and fucked over on Xanax. Good lord, she could killer herself by mixing painkillers w/ alcohol, you know, but you don't care, because you have the gall to ask me for my acid because she wants to trip too.
I don't mind you dating a girl who does drugs Gabe, but this girl has got to go. She's irresponsible, immature, and unintelligent. She doesn;t know her limits nor does she know how to take care of herself. I don't care how pretty she looks to you or how good a fuck she is, she has drug issues that aren't worth dealing with and you better get rid of them before they spread to you.
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"I can't see! I can't see! Oh wait.... I just had my eyes closed the whole time."
"If Hare Krishnas believe in reincarnation, does that make them Born Again Krishnas?"
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[cand-E bamber]

maybe you should persue this jessica girl. seems like you care about her :/

 

[Mysticalis]

Belive me, you're not the first to tell me to do so. My own father said that Jessica was a girl better suited for me than for Gabe....
We're friends right now, and in the current state of affairs, friendship is the best stance here.
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"I can't see! I can't see! Oh wait.... I just had my eyes closed the whole time."
"If Hare Krishnas believe in reincarnation, does that make them Born Again Krishnas?"
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[cherub]

hun, I know we talked alittle about this ,,,
but i wanted to add some to you
Remember,
Unfortunately,, people we love, and care about, don't always make the right choices in life,, but it is a lesson they have to go through.
I know you want what is best for your brother and though he is not making some correct choices,, voice your opinion and move on from that battle that is all you can do.
Unfortunately it is hard to see people make mistakes or choices you don't agree with.
mwah !
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" Stay with me just for today and let your soul come rest for a minute. "

 

[spaceangel]

I agree with Cherub people need to make there own mistakes god knows I have made enough of them. But that is how we learn. I know what it feels like to be hurt so I try protect everyone from getin hurt but trust me it does no good people start usin u. U sound like a good guy and she sounds like a god girl she'll get over him. Don't let it get u down and He is ur bro keep him close no girl is worth loosin him over. Everybody makes mistakes.
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Love all and all will love you, If only that were true!
love to all
Spaceangel
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[ice-9]

not sure how I can reply to this, other than saying 'thank you' for the post. It's always positive to let the emotion run free, and using words as tool for doing so is even better.
I may not know you, but i can tell how much you care for your brother. I remember the post you made about him when he was missing, and how distraught you were. But there are some things he has to see for himself.
"You can lead a horse to water, but its up to the horse to drink."
There's only so much you can do. Be there for him, support him, and just hope that one day he matures and realizes how much you look out for him.