Upset after sex

[Theart]

Hey so I'm 17 years old girl and I met this guy at my job a month ago and we talked a lot through texts and calls. He always held like a a**hole composer but he was always joking around. But a month and some weeks later (today) we hung out for the first time and we ended up having sex. And he wasn't really the most caring person. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 8 months before and I cried for a week after then we ended up breaking up a month later. But anyways, after me and the guy had sex I was really quiet after and he just stayed on his phone. When he was bringing me to work I was still quiet. And I asked him if he only had me over to have sex and he said no he wanted to hang out as well. But it's been like 7 hours and he hasn't texted me or anything. I just feel used and disgusted. I know I kinda set myself up but idk.

 

[pofacedhoe]

wow

so your first boyfriend messed you about and now you feel used by this guy.

people will use you to have sex, not cos they are nasty but simply because they want it without the lovey dovey shit that takes time to build.

people want different things.

sounds like you want romance and love. you need to make that clear and if you think they are just after sex go after someone else

 

[caseyg.hatchell]

Don't let yourself get used by others. Be strict and choose relationship based on positive things, like- how he cares you, giving your questions response at first priority. Love to spend time with you. And for most importantly date many time but don't get over with it throughout the night, since you're not sure, that person is being using you for sex or want a true love from you.

 

[gmlifer]

You wanted to have sex and now you are feeling regret for doing it. What did you really expect from someone you have known for such a short time.

The two replies above me cover the rest. You need to be a bit more selective as to who you are going to give your body to.

 

[Jcoedine]

Happened to me, I know how you feel. I has sex with this guy last summer (or this summer, whatever you prefer) and well it felt like he used me so I got upset and after a month or two I got over it and moved on. And now I'm happily in a relationship and this guy came back and is trying to get back with me.. But the only thing he talks about is sex. So in this case you should bus explain how you feel and if it happens again or if he texts you some sexual things your best bet is so ignore him and move on... Unless you wanna become his booty call... :/

 

[alasdairm]

He always held like a a**hole composer...

what does that mean?

But anyways, after me and the guy had sex I was really quiet after and he just stayed on his phone. When he was bringing me to work I was still quiet.

sounds like you two don't have much of a connection. i'd be inclined to bail now.

But it's been like 7 hours and he hasn't texted me or anything.

a whole 7 hours have passed? wait a couple of days and see how you feel. if you want to see him again, give him a call. if not, learn lesson and move on.

alasdair

 

[namnoc16]

Holy shit 7 hours huh? No offense but you sound kind of needy and maybe that turned him off. I mean to e it sounds like you guys had casual sex and you were hoping for more. If you really liked the guy don't ever give it up so easy us men can be pretty simple creatures and if we seem to get something without much effort it makes it less likely we try again. If it was more then casual sex you were after screwing the guy the first time you hung out isn't the way to go about it.

 

[bingey]

Sounds like bad sex to me.

 

[nygiants1313]

If you wanted to see if he wanted to hang out hang out or just have sex then you should have made sure you didnt have sex with him immediately. Honestly, no offense, its prob all he wanted, but ya never know. he prob does look at you differently now. I was always turned off by a girl who i was able to fuck within hours of hanging out with her. But it takes 2 to tango and im assuming he is older since you didnt write his age. If you really wanted to know his intentions you shoulda hung out more then once before sex. Live and learn for next time. Whenever id have sex i never wanted to cuddle, and always wanted to get outta there ASAP. But im a male with no emotions or feelings so who knows.

I will say if the sex was amazing he would be trying to see u again to keep having amazing sex.