ControlDaddy
Bluelighter
How do you enhance or extend your pleasure from masturbation?
I think we are all experts in our own minds, about the best way to fap, but I think a lot of vital knowledge and experience is falling through the cracks. Or slits. Or holes. (he).*
About five or six years ago, I decided I was already a long gone gooner, and it was time to throw in the towel and lose that last shred of dignity by ordering a Fleshlight and trying it out. It really didn't knock my socks off that much. The only time it was awesome was when I was having my ex use it on me, and even then it wasn't because it was so awesome to put my dong into, it was when she pretended to give cunninglingus to the vagina mold on the thing. LOL. IDK why, maybe I still felt like a tool having one, but after a month or so I tossed it in the trash.
Soon after, my stimfap marathons became close to continuous, and the PHd I had earned in the field of penile friction burns was wanting. Even my hands were showing some damage. It was time for some post-doctoral work, or it was time to cut back the megafaps. Of course I immediately adjusted my budget for tuition and research expenses. Over the next year or so I would order different lubes, make my own, try different kinds of gloves, and other male sex toys. In the latter, I bought more than a dozen things to stick my weiner in. One of them, I believe, stands as high above the others as the Hitachi magic wand does for a lot of women. It is called the Tenga Zero Fliphole for Men, and it is kind of expensive if you don't know the searing sharp ouchnesses that a dick with burn holes creates. White and black are a little different, I use both of course. The best lube for this toy is Shibari, and Amazon ships that too. A runner up, or at least a nice alternative to the Tenga, is this soft stroker from Pipedream. It is a radically different feel and technique from a hard cup like the Flip Holes, but is a good go-to when you have become desensitized to that and your almighty hand.
I remember thinking that the Fleshlight was a major fail in the area of subterfuge, because it was supposed to pass as a flashlight if someone saw it in a drawer or whatever, but it is twice the size of every flashlight in existence. I don't watch a lot of "Asian" porn or hentai, because man they go deep into it over there. I no longer let having a male sex toy hurt my self-esteem, as I remind myself this proud hand pussy comes with a display stand, has a clean design and is uber high tech. God bless the Nipponese, the rest of us have a a lot we can learn about pornography and sex and masturbation from them, I am sure.
Thus, having presented my thesis to my peers, I want your feedback.
* I hope the mods will treat this differently than the pussy preference thread, in the sense of realizing this is a topic where men discussing it candidly with other men is exactly correct, and perhaps even an absence of female perspectives is not going to hurt, or at least it best be supportive for the most part. That is not to say wanton misogyny is welcome, but no one reading this should be feeling overly sensitive or argumentative about what is offensive to them in this case. What might be misogyny in any other thread, not on this topic, is probably borderline and possibly unintentional here.
I think we are all experts in our own minds, about the best way to fap, but I think a lot of vital knowledge and experience is falling through the cracks. Or slits. Or holes. (he).*
About five or six years ago, I decided I was already a long gone gooner, and it was time to throw in the towel and lose that last shred of dignity by ordering a Fleshlight and trying it out. It really didn't knock my socks off that much. The only time it was awesome was when I was having my ex use it on me, and even then it wasn't because it was so awesome to put my dong into, it was when she pretended to give cunninglingus to the vagina mold on the thing. LOL. IDK why, maybe I still felt like a tool having one, but after a month or so I tossed it in the trash.
Soon after, my stimfap marathons became close to continuous, and the PHd I had earned in the field of penile friction burns was wanting. Even my hands were showing some damage. It was time for some post-doctoral work, or it was time to cut back the megafaps. Of course I immediately adjusted my budget for tuition and research expenses. Over the next year or so I would order different lubes, make my own, try different kinds of gloves, and other male sex toys. In the latter, I bought more than a dozen things to stick my weiner in. One of them, I believe, stands as high above the others as the Hitachi magic wand does for a lot of women. It is called the Tenga Zero Fliphole for Men, and it is kind of expensive if you don't know the searing sharp ouchnesses that a dick with burn holes creates. White and black are a little different, I use both of course. The best lube for this toy is Shibari, and Amazon ships that too. A runner up, or at least a nice alternative to the Tenga, is this soft stroker from Pipedream. It is a radically different feel and technique from a hard cup like the Flip Holes, but is a good go-to when you have become desensitized to that and your almighty hand.
I remember thinking that the Fleshlight was a major fail in the area of subterfuge, because it was supposed to pass as a flashlight if someone saw it in a drawer or whatever, but it is twice the size of every flashlight in existence. I don't watch a lot of "Asian" porn or hentai, because man they go deep into it over there. I no longer let having a male sex toy hurt my self-esteem, as I remind myself this proud hand pussy comes with a display stand, has a clean design and is uber high tech. God bless the Nipponese, the rest of us have a a lot we can learn about pornography and sex and masturbation from them, I am sure.
Thus, having presented my thesis to my peers, I want your feedback.
* I hope the mods will treat this differently than the pussy preference thread, in the sense of realizing this is a topic where men discussing it candidly with other men is exactly correct, and perhaps even an absence of female perspectives is not going to hurt, or at least it best be supportive for the most part. That is not to say wanton misogyny is welcome, but no one reading this should be feeling overly sensitive or argumentative about what is offensive to them in this case. What might be misogyny in any other thread, not on this topic, is probably borderline and possibly unintentional here.
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. That is kind of a case of waste not want not though and is certainly a lot cheaper than ky jelly. I certainly can see how one would try something weird like this on day day 11 of a stim binge.. but that’s about the only reason I could see that it would even be tempting..
it’s kind of a prerequisite for me now though.. if I can’t watch a woman masturbate I can’t continue the relationship.. it’s just something I like.. and it’s still not as odd as the fly lube 
