the tangled webs we weave

[boredgerbear]

hey people got kinda a situation with my wife and a nuisance of a @home drug test.
After relapsing on pills the eventually back to H due to a back injury. I decided to come clean to my wife but have been puting off quitting till I acquired a safe supply of suboxon and tramadol ti avoid harsh withdrawals because I can't afford to take time off or loose my job. But that time had come and I'm ready to put it down .unfortunately wife believes I did this months ago and so the last week I've been dodging a WalMart 5 panel like the plague. Any suggestions on how to cheat this thing? My only optionright now is dilution...sges my wife so subing isn't really an option. Sry not exactly sure I this question is against guidelines .but I refuse to believe that these things are foolproof....Thanks

 

[szuko000]

Because you chose to add a human element to your drug testing question, which isnt allowed by the way, i will give you my take on the situation. If you and your wife have the type of relationship where she is going to be concerned for your well being you should just talk to her. The worst thing you could ever do in a relationship is lie or hide something. I had to admit a relapse to my girlfriend even when she was still using and i had been clean and that shit is never easy, you walk around fine with the idea until you have to utter the phrase "i havent exactly been honest about something" suddenly its like the first time you realized it and it makes you uncomfortable to think about when like you said its been going on for months.

I wont tell you how to do anything but i will say this, there are very few things in life that are unbreakable with a little thought. I think you need to tell your wife what you are doing and get support. The fact that you are here asking how to perpetuate a lie to keep her happy means you love her to some degree and that fact alone must mean lying bothers the heck out of you.

I do have to close this because its not allowed if you want to remove the bit about drug testing we can keep it open but we have a no testing questions clause for threads to keep the community harm reduction and information driven. PM me if you have questions.