^ that's the sort of thing I was thinking of, only not to that extent!
Several years ago I did one of those "courses" .... you know the ones... sort of a change-your-life & control-your-destiny thing.
And one of the things they said to us on the first day absolutely bowled me over. It was "The world is empty and meaningless"
That's exactly the way they put it.
"The world is empty and meaningless" .
Now a lot of people in the room at that point in time started to get very angry. They argued that *obviously* some things are good, and some are bad. No, no, no said the lecturer.... everything is empty and meaningless. This went on for quite some time until one woman stood up and said "My CHILD DIED when she was four. Is that EMPTY and MEANINGLESS?". The lecturer said "yes". She left and didn't return.
That's when it hit me. We were even adding meaning to the term "empty and meaningless" :D - imbuing that term with a negative connotation, as if to say if something's empty and meaningless, it's worthless or insignificant. It's not. It just IS.
I walked outside and I swear to god, the world around me had changed. All of a sudden that rain that was falling on me wasn't "bad" or "inconvenient", it was just rain. The people standing next to me weren't judging me, or possibly out to mug me.... they were just people. If one of them did mug me, I could *choose* to see that in whatever light I wanted to.
It was unbelievable. I felt like iron chains had been taken off me, and right then and there, EVERYTHING felt possible. Everything felt possible because the only thing holding me back were my feelings about things, not the actual reality of the situations. Previously I'd been distraught about losing a bunch of money when I'd planned to go overseas that year - after coming out of that lecture room I let go of all those fears and just started mentally *planning* instead of stressing. Those perceptions of "I can't do it" were actually the only thing stopping me doing it. I ended up doing that trip to Scotland, too. I found a billion little ways and avenues I'd never thought of.
Now this was - as I said - several years ago now, and of course you forget 8) . But I was watching the movie The Doors last night and the quote in my original post bought it all back.
If everyone were on that wavelength that things were empty and meaningless, how much more efficiently would the world work? We wouldn't take offense to anything - unless we chose to. We would just see setbacks as setbacks, not finalities. There would be no poor self-image, no suicides, possibly even no wars.
Obviously that's a pipe dream, and the problem comes in the fact that unless this change happens *simultaneously*, it wouldn't work. Because it's very hard to get along with someone thinking the "normal" way when you're thinking the empty and meaningless way. You offend a lot of people quite regularly, because they think you're some kind of unfeeling, unemotional bot. :D
Anyway... those were my thoughts.