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szair

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Note from Lacey: Since our old one is in the DC Archive, it is time for a new thread abotu Drugs and Parents. Anything related to your drugs use and your parents can go here. We got a seperate thread for your PARENTS using drugs, lol, but this noe is for all your problems, or victories , with your parents and your use. Want to post about how they cant stand you using? About how they dont know, and youre scared they will find out? About how they are totally ignorant and think you worship satan if you smoke trees? Or anything you want to get off your mind, even if its just "damn, today my moms found my bong", feel free to post it in here. We will try to help you if you have a problem you can post it in here and we can all read each other stories and try n help each other out. Sooo...our first poster says:


Heres, the story:
My parents are foreign from the U.S., I was born and raised in the states.
I was caught with cannabis about a month ago, and have been completely clean since, reason being random drug tests. I feel as if I am being shafted because my parents do not exactly understand marijuana's negatives and positives (they view it terribly negatively, thank you propaganda and media). However, I see it as something that is SOOO much better than alcohol, which I do not like very much at all. I see no problem with a good toke here and there, but random drug tests prevent me from doing so. What should i do, as I would love to indulge in marijuana sometimes soon again.
 
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i am guessing you are of some type of asian descent?

i doubt theres much you can do to change your parents views on it. ive tried alot, but in my caase all i can do is wait a few more months til im 18 then i can just smoke as i please, but until then i have to just keep it on the dl and not get caught

but in my case, weed helps my chronic pain, insomnia, and stimulates my appetite, and im on a few different medications for these problems, 3 of which are norcotics- quite addictive narcotics- and theyre more harmful to my body than weed is, but still my mom wont let me smoke weed to help these problems and instead shed rather have me on these other drugs that are okay at helping these problems whereas weed is the most effective.

its really stupid, but i cant really blame my moms ignorance caues of all that bullshit in the media and online
 
Well,

Yes, your basically correct. I do as well have some problems i did use marijuana for anxiety and insomnia included. And as in your situation, cannabis was not seen as a legitimate means of treatment. I also look very forward to the day of independence when I can responsibly use marijuana, I have a little more time then you have. The point is I don't think that i can fairly point fingers, and I guess with time i can only wait and see how the drug tests go and figure out some sort of means of smoking here and there.
 
It sounds like your parents have some views about marijuana that may or may not be based on fact, that you disagree with. I bet you want them to look at pot the same way you do, which sounds like it may or may not be based on any real fact. And it sounds like you guys aren't very close to meeting somewhere in the middle. I'm guessing your parents have stronger eastern values than you do. I doubt you are going to make much headway convincing your parents that you are correct, and it may cause problems for you to do so. Who know, they might change their minds, but for reasons of face, not change their behavior and still outlaw cannabis in your house. This is all just based on speculation and conjecture, so I may be completely wrong. But if I'm close, the best advice I have is to avoid the wrath of your parents and wait it out. Find other ways to waste your youth, go get chased by the cops for other reasons that they may not feel so strongly against. Spend more time online, get addicted to 4chan or WoW instead.
You'll have plenty of time in college and after that to smoke the day away.
Pot also has the aspect that it sticks in your urine for so long, try choosing something that isn't so pesky if UA's are a problem.
 
^4chan or WoW? Come on... :P Just say no homie.

All kidding aside fact of the matter is that until you turn 18 and leave their house there is little you can do.

You could approach them as their son, but also as a reasonable and intelligent person and explain your point of view. Try not to get mad and be very patient. If you can print out some information that explains the benefits of marijuana use and how it's less harmful than alcohol.

In my case my grandparents, whom I spent my high school years with were very anti-drug and anti-alcohol until I graduated from high school and got the fuck out of their house. Now if I have a drink at dinner they don't care and as long as I'm not blasted out of my mind the family really doesn't mind the other stuff I do.

Right now you are a minor under the roof of your parents. I understand that you like weed, but maybe you should take into consideration how your family feels?
 
its there house, its there rules. Move out if you disagree.

you should show them your responsible and wont turn into a burnout
 
sorry, i didnt read the thread right before closing it , i apologize for that and last night my computer wouldnt go online so i couldnt come back to fix it til now. This is gonna get merged with the drugs and parents thread, tho, since thats wat this is abotu and we got a mega thread dealing with drug n parent issues.:) sorry again 4 that wrongful closing

Edit: Ooo shit, Thats in the archive now! Looks like you are now the proud starter of our BRAAAANNND NEWWW...

DRUGS AND PARENTS MEGA THREAD!!!!
WOOHOO!!

*claps for szair* ;)

Here is the old one for your viewin pleasure Original drugs and parents thread
 
I'm an adult, well a young one at that and my mother is outragously against any kind of drug use....even the doctor prescriped ones.

She would always complain and accuse me of being lazy and abusing pills ( which wasn't even possible because she toke the main ones away, only giving me one painkiller as she felt I "needed") and threatened to call my doctor, lie and say the I was an addict who was "drug seeking" so they'd cancel my scripts, despite my true needing for them. That's not only an invasion of privacy (which is illegal to do to an adult) but very malicious to inflict pain on her own grown kid.

Now, I have other drugs stashed away that she doesn't and will never know about. I've tried countless times to try to educate her about pharma drugs, and the positive and helpful effects by them, but she still is convinced in her own mind that all drugs are evil. This sickens me, because I truly needed some of these pill for my pain. Drug themselves are not bad when used responsibly.
 
My mom has told me that if she ever found out I did drugs that she would send me immediately to rehab...and kick me out. She's yet to find out that I've been using for a little over a year now. I talk about pretty much everything with her, and it hurts me that I'm keeping this secret from her, but in my mind I think it's for the best that she doesn't know...
 
My stepdad who im with the most really knows i smoke herbs, he burn blunts with me. he also knows i do benzos, which he is never shy to ask for some freebies. had to cut him off though, was gettin too crazy. he also knows i do opiates and LSD, im always tryin to get him to trip with us but he always pussies out...
 
The best way to "change someone's opinion" of weed or any drug (if that's even possible) is to set a good example. Don't get addicted. Don't neglect your responsibilities. Don't do shady things with shady people. Most importantly, after you've made your point, don't keep pushing the issue with someone who doesn't agree with your POV. That only makes them hate drugs more.

When I was a teen pothead, both my parents knew it, as did just about everyone else. My mom didn't care ("just don't get busted") and my dad hated it. I smoked outside ONLY, and tried not to be too "out" about it, but always ended up getting caught by my dad, who would fly into a rage about his "dopehead daughter", which promptly ended my high.

If you live in someone else's house, you have to either a.) be very stealth about your smoking habits, or b.) abide by their rules. That's the downside of having someone else pay your bills and living expenses I guess.
 
my parents are quite open to drugs.. they caught me smoking hash when i was 15... well they came and picked me up from the police station, and told me they wouldn't mind if we lived in holland... but they don't want me to get into trouble with the law... i also told them that i took LSD for new years when they asked what had i taken cause i was maad high off speed LSD MDMA ket, cocaine and Heroin, maybe if they knew the full extent they might not have been so understanding...

i think its the legal side that theyre worried about... (my mum drinks a bottle of wine /day)
 
my parents always tell me i have to quit but they smoke weed and cigs and drink booze and do pharms. wtf!? I'm 23, only living here because I have to right now.

i just keep using though.
 
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