Eva 33
Bluelighter
I suffer from severe constant chronic pain, and am prescribed opiates by a pain management doctor. My doctor is a good doctor and is sympathetic to my pain. I've been seeing him for 5 years. Prior to seeing my PM doc, I suffered for years with inadequate pain meds and incompetent doctors. I truly am grateful to have found a sympathetic doctor who understands my excruciating pain condition and my need for opiates. Without opiates, I wouldn't be able to get out of bed in the morning. The pain is that severe.
I've always been completely open and honest about everything with my doctor. I would never do anything to mess up our doctor/patient relationship of trust. He is fairly generous with the opiates, but obviously he is also strict and has to follow every law to the letter.
I wonder if I should admit to my pain doctor that recent financial stresses are exacerbating my pain? This is 100% true, and my financial situation has suddenly become quite dire. The stress over not knowing where my next meal will come from is driving my pain levels through the roof! I have issues with rent, health insurance, student loans, credits cards, and even the bare necessities like food. This Jan. 1st., the rug got pulled out from under me financially---with NO WARNING.
On a chronic pain forum, I once read a CP patient advise, "Never tell your pain doctor that your pain is caused by anything other than your disease. Mentioning financial or family stresses could backfire on you". (Apparently pain docs worry about patients "self-medicating" their stresses away, even with a legit pain syndrome). Do others here tend to agree with that statement?
I don't know if I should just tell my pain doc that my pain has suddenly gotten worse, and leave it at that. Maybe that could backfire on me, too. But I've never before told my pain doctor much about just how stressful my family and financial situation are. I've alluded to it, but the situation was never before dire enough for me to elaborate on it. My doctor knows I don't have that much money, but he doesn't know just how close to poverty I might be. (My car is 26-years-old and keeps having problems. I can't afford a new used car, so that creates great stress).
I also don't know how I'll pay the rent or my health insurance or my student loans. It's all coming down on me at once, which is causing horrible stress and greatly increased pain. Any advice over whether or not I should mention any of this to my doctor is greatly appreciated! (I did briefly mention that I'm experiencing recent family and financial stresses, and told him that the stress sends my pain levels through the roof). But perhaps that's as much as I should say? I certainly wouldn't want to get labeled as having "mental health" problems or "self-medicating" behaviors. I think I need to be very careful here, so I just wondered if anyone can offer any advice, please.
Thank you in advance!
I've always been completely open and honest about everything with my doctor. I would never do anything to mess up our doctor/patient relationship of trust. He is fairly generous with the opiates, but obviously he is also strict and has to follow every law to the letter.
I wonder if I should admit to my pain doctor that recent financial stresses are exacerbating my pain? This is 100% true, and my financial situation has suddenly become quite dire. The stress over not knowing where my next meal will come from is driving my pain levels through the roof! I have issues with rent, health insurance, student loans, credits cards, and even the bare necessities like food. This Jan. 1st., the rug got pulled out from under me financially---with NO WARNING.
On a chronic pain forum, I once read a CP patient advise, "Never tell your pain doctor that your pain is caused by anything other than your disease. Mentioning financial or family stresses could backfire on you". (Apparently pain docs worry about patients "self-medicating" their stresses away, even with a legit pain syndrome). Do others here tend to agree with that statement?
I don't know if I should just tell my pain doc that my pain has suddenly gotten worse, and leave it at that. Maybe that could backfire on me, too. But I've never before told my pain doctor much about just how stressful my family and financial situation are. I've alluded to it, but the situation was never before dire enough for me to elaborate on it. My doctor knows I don't have that much money, but he doesn't know just how close to poverty I might be. (My car is 26-years-old and keeps having problems. I can't afford a new used car, so that creates great stress).
I also don't know how I'll pay the rent or my health insurance or my student loans. It's all coming down on me at once, which is causing horrible stress and greatly increased pain. Any advice over whether or not I should mention any of this to my doctor is greatly appreciated! (I did briefly mention that I'm experiencing recent family and financial stresses, and told him that the stress sends my pain levels through the roof). But perhaps that's as much as I should say? I certainly wouldn't want to get labeled as having "mental health" problems or "self-medicating" behaviors. I think I need to be very careful here, so I just wondered if anyone can offer any advice, please.
Thank you in advance!