Sudden Inexplicable Onset of Premature Ejaculation. Due to Serotonin levels?

[AzhorraTha]

Hi folks,

In the past few weeks I finished up my assignments and stuff and my girlfriend and I have been blowing off steam. In the past month or so I've done MDMA four times along with some other stuff including BK-2C-B, P1-LSD, 25I-NBOMe, and MDAI (I realise that this is over the top and will be cutting down to monthly sessions now).
My girlfriend and I have been sexually active for a few months now (she's my first) and it has gone swimmingly up til last week. The past 3 times I put my penis in her I ejaculated quite literally immediately with a condom on. Was never a problem before and we typically have sessions of at least 20 minutes. I'm really confused and worried because although nerves are sometimes a problem for my little rifle, I've never had this happen.

My question is this: For no clear reason, I seem to have developed PE after a month or so of roughly bi-weekly drug use. Having read up online, I see that low Serotonin levels can sometimes cause mental premature ejaculation and I am wondering if anyone else has experienced this and managed to solve it?
A secondary suspicion of mine is that two of the times on MDMA I took Viagra (about a third of a pill each time) and we had pretty intense sessions that lasted several hours virtually non-stop. I'm concerned that as a result of this, my penis has sort of grown accustomed to being beaten around without any need for stopping and edging and such, and is now too sensitive when I'm not on MDMA.

My girlfriend is extremely understanding and she's going to spend the next week or so giving me fairly regular blowjobs (every cloud has a silver lining I suppose) to try to bring my sensitivity down again. I'm also on 5HTP and thinking I'll take it daily for a week or two under the assumption that it is induced by low Serotonin levels.

I'm posting here because even though I'm blaming drugs (because I see no other possible cause), it really is strange to me because it's fine when I masturbate or she blows me, but penetration instantly sets it off. Is this in fact due to the MDMA? Will a break from MD (last drop was about 10 days ago) and a week or two of 5HTP clear this up?

In short, I have PE all of a sudden after a binge. Is it because of Serotonin levels or too much intense sex on MDMA? Or have I actually suddenly developed PE with absolutely no provocation?

Thanks so much guys!

 

[rm-rf]

Personally I wouldnt frame this in terms of the simple fact that you did drugs, but rather that you may have recently stumbled upon a lifestyle that is throwing your internal vitality around a lot. Its likely that temporarily returning to a stable daily routine, taking care of yourself physically, dieting well, and resting well, will have a positive effect on your ability to control your sexual power. In any event, its unlikely that any particular drug or experience can be directly correlated to what youre experiencing.

Its possible that the flow of your internal energies is all out of sorts by having a lot of intense experiences as of late. You also may have let a large amount of your sexual vitality out with your girlfriend while partying so much. Glad you had fun, time and a place for everything, right? But it takes a long time for the body to refortify itself, and reconstitute its sexual vitality from ejaculating frequently (what is your general age range, btw?). Pretty much all drugs also drain the body of vitality, so rest is in order. Eat lots of fresh veggies (are you in the northern hemisphere?). Sleep well.

If your lady is so willing to help you out with this, take advantage of the opportunity to practice some control. Try and discover a place in your mind where you can will your self to not cum. Practice edging in her mouth, while focusing everything you have on relaxing and letting go of the need to orgasm. Think of it as meditating on retaining your orgasm and controlling your body's reactions to stimuli. If she is enjoying such a practice with you, see if you can learn to bring yourself to that state easily, and then try and transfer those thoughts and physical feelings to sex with her.

 

[pokepoke420]

This happens to me as well. Lay off the drugs for a bit and all will be okay. It will be in your head for a minute so just try not to think about it too much. As understanding as your chick can be, it still is so frustrating (and not pleasing for you) when you know she isn't getting off. So for now, NO DRUGS, and just perform a lot of oral on her so she can cum too. Coke and E have the same effect on me. So does stress. Just relax and you should be okay in a few weeks.

 

[the_ketaman]

I pray to god that this doesn't continue for you because PE is a really difficult thing to learn to deal with. Ive suffered from it for years because im on methadone(I think that's why) but it doesn't always happen. Im not suggesting this at all but methamphetamine seems to get rid of the problem. Ive asked doctors what I can do and basically all they said was go on a low dose of SSRI's which im definitely not doing!

They really need to start trying a bit harder to find us guys some meds that actually work for this because its quite detrimental to my wellbeing. I was lucky that my ex was understanding too, but its still not easy at all.

One thing ive figured out over the years it, 90% of it is in your head!

 

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Personally I wouldnt frame this in terms of the simple fact that you did drugs, but rather that you may have recently stumbled upon a lifestyle that is throwing your internal vitality around a lot. Its likely that temporarily returning to a stable daily routine, taking care of yourself physically, dieting well, and resting well, will have a positive effect on your ability to control your sexual power. In any event, its unlikely that any particular drug or experience can be directly correlated to what youre experiencing.

Its possible that the flow of your internal energies is all out of sorts by having a lot of intense experiences as of late. You also may have let a large amount of your sexual vitality out with your girlfriend while partying so much. Glad you had fun, time and a place for everything, right? But it takes a long time for the body to refortify itself, and reconstitute its sexual vitality from ejaculating frequently (what is your general age range, btw?). Pretty much all drugs also drain the body of vitality, so rest is in order. Eat lots of fresh veggies (are you in the northern hemisphere?). Sleep well.

If your lady is so willing to help you out with this, take advantage of the opportunity to practice some control. Try and discover a place in your mind where you can will your self to not cum. Practice edging in her mouth, while focusing everything you have on relaxing and letting go of the need to orgasm. Think of it as meditating on retaining your orgasm and controlling your body's reactions to stimuli. If she is enjoying such a practice with you, see if you can learn to bring yourself to that state easily, and then try and transfer those thoughts and physical feelings to sex with her.

Spot on the whole way through. All I have to add is that if it makes you feel better, back when my guy and I used to take MD every weekend (which is NOT a good idea - so I'm glad to hear you're stopping) that happened to him out of the blue as well. A couple months without any drugs though and it was sorted.