problem in the US: People can't get it through their head that people won't live for ever, and that keeping them vent dependent or brain dead at $10,000 a day plus even though they are 80s-90s just because family won't let them go- no health care coverage- the hospital eats the cost- passing it on to everyone else, what estate are they going to go after to recoup their loses. Health care- they eat the cost raising premiums- so we all suffer. I've seen cops, having patients that can't break out b/c there too fucked up wait to arrest them because then they don't have to pay for the cost- the hospital has to eat them up. Last staff, current staff has to pick up slack. Family doesn't realize there are other patients, you do your best, give heart and soul, there is no resources to give quality health care. Then there are the assholes that sue for bullshit reason- and take away from everyones care resources, more hospital workers lose jobs. Already, falls are a major problem because management can't afford sitters. As an RN, you cary a cell phone. You have 3 ours of charting thnks to frivolous law suits. Get call from family members saying they want their family members face washed, interupting the reults of the MRI or lab results your trying to access, or the treatment plan you are going over for appropriateness- you would be shocked at mistakes docs make- leave out DVT prophylaxis in post op patients, order IV fluids with K+ and forget to order BMPs (have potassium levels), ect... by the time you get back to address problem A family B has a prblem with the TV remote control or they sent the wron kind of jello with lunch. By the time yoy work it out with dietary, patient D's pneumothorax is getting worse and we have increased respiratory distress, then you can tell A, B, C to have a emergency and they are understanding. If a family sees you at a terminal- they think you are playing on the internet. I have a 12 hour shift. For lunch, I clock out. I tell everyone I'm going to lunch and they will be a problem. Atleast 1-2 patients have a major problem- need tea warmed up before i leave. Started taking lumch at 1430-1500. Less issues. Were required to take full 30 min but sometimes I eat fast but chart because i know there won't be interuptions from cell phone- charge has it. When they have a prblem- they tell patient your nurse should be there in 10-15 minutes, unless its an emergency then send CNA (who are horribly abused and over worked.). In spite all all my efforts, I am usally at work 30-60 min overtime which will eventaually cause a reprimand. What is the solution- don't have time to hear about our patients problems, talk with people that need someone to talk to. More and more, family members will have to learn to get stuff like water, tea, and towels, or do a freshen up with families. This should be the families job anyway, unless contraindicated. Our job is to coordinate there care, implement treatment plan, make sure they are not the victim of a fatal mistake, manage pain, communicate new results with the doctors on the case. Charting- thats time away from bedside care. The system is broken and fucked up- people are greedy, see the old ase a burden, not with respect, and sometimes forget they are in a hospital, not a hotel, depite the rediculous cost of health care.