Ok firstly I'm new here. came across this while bored and decided to make an account. okay so anyways onto the thing. so what do you guys and gals think of having a fwb with someone while they are with someone but your not. So long story short yes I am and no it doesn't make me gods gift to women and all that. There is one thing though, I don't feel guilty about doing it but I do feel bad because I wish I was in a relationship and as fun no commitment stuff is I don't understand how she could be with someone and still do what she is doing... anyways what's your take on this. have any situations you've been in that were similar?
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So what would you people say about this??
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StrutterGear
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A relationship is a commitment, meaning if I wanted to fuck someone else I would end my relationship. It's like one long trust exercise, bouncin off one another, having somebody dependable, somebody's who's always gonna be there.... How can you have that if you're fuckin' someone else? Just me probably, I've never cheated and never would,e ven though I've been cheated on twice.
morpher001
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Its her choice, go for it.
that's how I feel as well. I've kind of told her and asked why she wouldn't just end it with the guy because apparently he really likes her But she doesn't feel for him the same way. I personally feel and she has admitted to it that he is filling a void for her, that she has someone there. But unfortunately for her the shit will hit the fan one of these days.
I already have been. we've been doing it before she was even going out with the guy or before she even knew him.
llama112
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It's not something I would do. Personally, if I knew that the person I was seeing/having sex with/whatever had a significant other, then I would be just as guilty of cheating. I don't agree with cheating, so it's like promoting it, advocating it. I think it is very wrong. Yeah, she has a problem, she is the one actually cheating on him. I believe she is wrong too. But I don't think someone should help her be wrong.
Maybe if her fuck buddy said, no I'm not going to help you cheat on your boyfriend, she might realize that things are more complicated, and that problems could arise from it.
Maybe if her fuck buddy said, no I'm not going to help you cheat on your boyfriend, she might realize that things are more complicated, and that problems could arise from it.
Captain.Heroin
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Only if you both consent to an open relationship, it's not right to treat it like it is, when you know the other person thinks you're only coming home to them. It'll only hurt your karma over time, trust me.