Shes not interested?

[floatingaround]

I met this girl in line, we got on great initially, talked about meeting up for sex at a hotel.

Then she ghosted for 5 days, then returned apologising saying she's been busy, her ex just self harmed and ended up in hospital. She said she jumped into the idea of the hotel too quickly, but she would love to go for dinner and drinks and hit the town.

She then proceeded to ghost me again for 5 days and has just responded in the last few hours replying to messages about dinner and drinks saying "sounds like a plan" and even asking how I am and if I had recovered from covid from last weekend.


Whats her go? I have given her a few opportunities to stop contact with me, she said she wants to keep talking though.

I'm 99% sure she will bail on dinner plans, but will keep it open to see what she does lol

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

She probably wouldn't have messaged you again of she didn;t wanna meet - and she's probably right
about not jumping straight from online into bed too. Imo

 

[foodcrisis]

did you ever meet her or virtually chat? was thinking maybe it's just some dude or whatever posting a girl's pics on the other end to get a rise out of people... or it could just be a girl that likes to see how long she can keep chatting with a person and blowing them off. but you say you had covid? idk. she might just be really cautious about that and really had trouble with an ex.. but five days not to contact both times seems excessive, who knows... if you're really into her, wait a bit and time will tell.

 

[foodcrisis]

i totally just realiazed it kind of reads like you talked over the phone

idk.. more of a chance it's a real person if that's the case

 

[floatingaround]

Spoke on the phone. she's a real woman. no, we have plans to meet in 2 weeks. she was just asking a follow up question which tells me she remembers/seems interested. but feel like she dosent have the guts to say she isn't, so she's letting me down slowly lol..

 

[ageingpartyfiend]

she contacted you off her own back, she's not ghosting you imo

5 days is ghosting? In that case I've ghosted everyone I've ever known!

 

[floatingaround]

I would personally consider not opening a message for 5 days pretty intentional, then to make contact again for a couple days just to go missing for another week.



Im getting really mixed vibes here. She says one thing but her actions say another.

 

[someguyontheinternet]

Maybe she has a lot going on, I'd give it some time

 

[ions]

Tell her you wanna hang out.
'Let's hang out' usually stirs things up.