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Sharing your partner

I don't have a partner to share, but I've been in situation where other people were sharing with me. It's fun if everyone is mentally prepared for it. I'd say it's one of things I like about MDMA; loss of evolutionary inhibitions.

It can make some really shitty comedown, if everyone isn't on the same level with sharing.
 
PFffft i dont see this happening where i live. Everyone gets jealous really easy.

One guy was ready to fight me off, just because he thought i was trying to approach hes girlfriend. All i was doing was pointing to the Concrete pillar behind her, because i wanted to lean against something and she was standing in front of it (not leaning though) because i was too mangled on mdma....

It was kinda "is this seat taken" moment that was completely misunderstood hahahaha
Lol
 
Sexualizing a situation is actually the last thing from me or my boyfriends mind when we are on MDMA. I am extremely friendly and affectionate, and it's often met by people I don't know well hoping it's flirting/swinging. We encourage friendly interaction with others (light shows, hugs etc.) but taking it to the next level seems completely foreign while on MDMA.

I think if you enjoy sharing your partner in sexual scenarios while rolling, it's part of something you get turned on by normally, but MDMA may allows you to feel more comfortable with the idea, or that aspect of your sexuality.
 
Wouldn't think of it.

MDMA is known to make men come out of the closet easier. So that reinforces what Bsiren was saying.
 
When I was younger out clubbing I'd see girls I'd fancy and we'd stare at eat other and have a snog but then 10 mins later I was pulled back onto the dancefloor by a tune lost all interest. So I don't find E that sexy for long. As for "sharing" my partner....well that'd be my wife so I don't think so! Call me old-fashioned but us being together with nobody else is kind of a major part of marriage. I do however feel more relaxed about affection when i'm off it so I don't mind arms around waists or a few hugs.
 
I have had my mouth on a good friend's girlfriend when we were in the hot tub, Me and my friend are very comfortable talking and I explained to him that I'm not going to try and get with her, plenty of other women.

But yea, the methylone hot tub nights got kinda crazy.
 
I think Bsiren broke it down the best. As a general rule, I'd say sharing them as far as affection goes(hugs, massages, etc.) is pretty common. I don't know anyone that would be comfortable sharing their significant other sexually, but that's just my circle of friends.
 
I really thought this thread said 'shaving' your partner - I was thinking why the fuck would I get a razor out when were both high?

Sharing =no !
 
It depends. It really does. I have a friend that says he isn't gay but he loves to watch guys cum when we watch porn, and he has given and received the occasional same sex blow job. He doesn't think he is gay though. 8)

Not for me to judge. I only know that a two man threesome with him is great. We both share our new friend's dick and work on it together. It's fun. We both get excited. Him from the live dick in front of him. Me from watching him get so fucking excited. He's in his 50s like me. It's really fun for both of us.

I know a 24 year old that has suggested a three way with one of his lady friends that's 34. No way could I do that. As soon as 24 and 34 started touching, I would feel a monster wave of jealousy that would send me directly out of the room. I don't think about 24's other friends at all. I don't know where that jealousy came from and it sure surprised us all when it busted to the surface.

So it depends. One sex buddy might be fun for threesomes. Another sex buddy might not work for threesomes AT ALL. Just my experience. I hope this helps.
 
^you took this WAY darker than what everyone else met :!

Im pretty sure everyone here is talking about rolling and making out with all your friends, and their girl friends and so on.

I could never do that with a girl I like, I get jealous when guys hug them lol
 
I've had too many threesomes with my partner... all of them happened when I was on E. It was "complicated" afterwards, to say the least. That said, I'd do it again.
P.S. She's my fiance now.
 
I think whenever "sharing" is involved, everyone has too be really comfortable with the situation and you have to trust and know your partner on very "high" level.
 
Sharing someone your in love with is very hard, I don't know if I could do it.
Sharing some sexy moments with friends or new friends could however be fun.
Its easier when there is no 'love' or deep affection bond.
 
I know a few people who are into partner swapping / group sex / swinging - the do it both high and sober. If it works for them then who am I / we to judge?
 
Yeah, I think it's important to be okay with the whole swinger thing both on and off MDMA. If you're sharing just because you're high on MDMA, that's not every good, IMO.
 
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