sexual repression

[desert wolf]

In a perfect world,a teenager goes out,finds a soulmate,does the std talk and tests and that is it.good and healthy sex.where i live,iraq,people have a islam,sex segregation means you will never find love,you can however:do the islamic muttah(temporary marriage,usually for a few days) but this is for men only,and it is very dangerous.you can do early marriage,however,this is a stupid thing to do.my morality prevents me from doing those two things,i am a good 19 year old young man,do you have any advice?

 

[Mysterie]

is it against the law to have a girlfriend?

in my view the only soulmate we have are ourselves, other people can complement and support our growth, but nobody fills some hole inside of us.

you mentioned sex segregation, that means single women dont leave the house without a family member?

maybe you can ask advice from an older guy in ur country who
is not fundamentalist.

 

[socko]

In a perfect world,a teenager goes out,finds a soulmate,does the std talk and tests and that is it.good and healthy sex.where i live,iraq,people have a islam,sex segregation means you will never find love,you can however:do the islamic muttah(temporary marriage,usually for a few days) but this is for men only,and it is very dangerous.you can do early marriage,however,this is a stupid thing to do.my morality prevents me from doing those two things,i am a good 19 year old young man,do you have any advice?

Leave Iraq. Apply to a foreign university, get a visa, and go. It is a lot easier to meet women in the west.

If you stay, are you looking at an arranged marriage? Is it the case in Iraq that single men are segregated from women in public places?

 

[desert wolf]

Thanks alot guys,can you give me how my looks would rate out of 10 if i post my pics

 

[Bearlove]

If your feeling sexual repression then you also know that other people in your area are feeling the same. If your only 19 then are you planning to travel for University?

Social media, chat sites, dating sites etc

 

[desert wolf]

Eh,Isis was created by sexual repression,young men are eager to fight so they can take female captives.Islamic state in shit (isis)

 

[desert wolf]

I am mostly insecure about my looks,I can get laid right now for 20$ but I want real love not prostitution

 

[desert wolf]

By the age of 18 a student must be in university but i left school for 2 years in2006 cause the civil war really escalated so i am going to college in 1 year from now,which can get me girls

 

[socko]

Use that year to get in shape and get rid of any fat. Get some clothes that fit well. Don't worry about anything else. Do cardiovascular exercise and some weight or yoga training. Then you will feel confident.

Girls like guys with skills too. Become good at something.

Girls from the middle east love the poet Rumi. Learn some Rumi quotes.

Find a good shisha café to meet girls.