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Sex on speed, better for girls or guys?

MOTOMAN

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Ok I done a search on this and it didn't give me an answer on what I am looking for. What I want to know is this. Is sex on speed better for girls or guys. Personally I haven't really been "UP" for it when I am on speed, but I had a incident the other night where the girl I am seeing was on it. Now all I have to say this. It was one hell of a night, I couldn't believe such a chemical would make someone change so much in bed, for the better of course...hehe. Is it like this with other women too, or could it have been a 1 off thing?
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As a female I can vouch for the excellentness of speed affecting the libido. My b/f also loves it. Preferable to E, sex-wise.
 
I'm glad you asked this actually because I've been wondering if I'm a bit of a weirdo.
I find that when I'm on speed I don't want sex. I don't even want to be touched. Whereas on E's I want everything. But alas it um, doesn't work if the guy is also on E (sigh).
I've found that it's better for the guy to be on speed and me to be on E.
BUT
I'm also gonna ask this question since it is half relevant . . .
I've found that I've lost almost all interest in sex so that these days I don't think about it, don't even notice it missing. And when opportunity strikes, I always bale . . . I couldn't be bothered, and generally when I have bothered I don't like it anyway (unless I'm Eing).
Weird or what?
Basically this deccline in interest has been slowly going downhill for over a year. Which actually coinsides with my drug use.
I'm wondering is it true that drugs rob you of your sex drive???
I feel like living proof and I can't seem to link the change to anything else.
Has anyone else noticed this or knows about this sort of thing???
 
Abby, i have had a similar thing, I used to be a serial dater!!
now it is pretty hard to keep my attention long enough to get a pash!! and if I am high...well....you can forget about it!! (with the exception of intoxication)
but you also have to consider the other things in your life, i am a really busy person at the moment, believe it or not!!, and when I go out it is an event where a 'pickup' is virtually the last thing on my mind!!
generally sex is the last thing on my mind too!! so your not alone, and i am glad to see I am not alone either
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Phew! Relief!
Don't get me wrong, I love guys, and affection . . . but compared to how I used to be it's dropped completely.
Also I don't want to sound like a freak, buuuuuut . . . . I get off on drugs these days (not the healthiest of attitudes I know) but still, ???
On a sad note though this was a major problem for my ex: His sex drive was not affected at all, if anything it increased (sex on drugs, comedown sex etc)
Have any other guys found this????? Because I wonder if it's an INDIVIDUAL thing or a GUY VS GIRL thing.
Back to me though, my disinterest resulted in an almost non-existant sex life. For a long time my bf was ok with that. Is that love or what?? But I guess too long and no improvements was too much for him, so it ended.
So now it's sort of easier being single, but what about the next relationship?? Am I gonna have to find a guy with an equally low sex drive?? Does such a thing exist???
Or am I going to have to practice abstinance from drugs for a long time to get it back???
Is it possible to get sex drive back? Is this just one of those nasty little side effects to drug use? Or a resultant longterm problem??
Geeeze, does anyone have an answer??
 
As always, GHB is your answer
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Seriously though, go see a doctor. They specialise in this sort of thing and you can bet your life you are not the first person to be like you are!
 
i have a friend who lost his sex drive after some serious eing..however it seems to be affected be certain types of e's then others..maybe the combintation of certain drugs together affects something? however sometimes after his comedown he's into sex but only once and just after comedown. i haven't done enuff eing (and don't plan to either...too old to kill off anymore of my brain) to really say whether it has an effect on me or not.
i beleive though..studying psyc like i do..that your sex drive would come back once you had been off drugs and their effects were pretty much out of your system...however this can take a VERY long time. i used pot for i guess a year regularily...lost a lot of my memory..and short term memory was pretty bad...it took 5 YEARS!! for it to go back to prepot days...so it can take a long time for drugs effects to leave your system...and it may be that some ppls bodies are better at repairing damage then others who knows
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on speed and e i can be either keen or not keen for sex. on e i love sexing it feels great and i seem to have great stamina. on speed i havn't got a bloody hope of getting it up even once, but when coming down i can and the sex feels great. sorry for da details but du asked
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yeah i tend to think less about getting some when i have a good weekend on the drugs. actually if i'm not thinking about one i'm normally thinkin about the other. drugs and sex haven't mixed in my experience, but i rekon i'm missing something
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except for drunk sex, that's has its moments. and sex on weed.. now that's good
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neone else ever spark up a spliff mid shag??? it changes the whole ballgame
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I think sex on weed is only good when your ripped and your partner is straight.
I have no motivation to put effort into sex when I'm bent but highly enjoy it when my parnters does all the work
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Pass it to the left hand syyyyde
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For me it depends on how many people I'm having sex with at the time
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In answer to the original question, I've never been a girl so I can't say who has it better.
Wouldn't this thread be better off in social?
And to Abby and Fataliss Soma has the answer. The use of pyschoactives for therapeutics has never gotten better than what G will do for you guys. If you want your interest back, that's possibly the best mankind can offer you
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[This message has been edited by entropope (edited 09 November 2000).]
 
Well I think sex on E is quite good, but yeah, the speed is a little different, it does weird things to me but like a couple people were saying, sex on a come down is great.
entropope: It could go to heaps of different rooms...eg:Medical, Other drugs, Social....I didn't know where to put it, move it if you want.
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If your gona do drugs, do them properly or don't do them at all.
 
Sex on speed is awesome.
Sex on e is awesome.
Sex on trips is awesome.
Ok sometimes your willy don't work but dat's why a boy's got a prostate, so use it!
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Willies work again when you've come down so stop worrying!
Sorry girls, like entropope I wouldn't presume to talk for you!
Abby luvvy - depression and loads a drugs depress libido. You sound depressed. Be kind to ya body and get some help and your libido will cum roarin back.
 
Sorry....did I give the impression I wanted my sex drive back???
I am pretty hapy with the way things are, I only miss the intamacy of a boyfriend, and well, sexdrive does not always lead to one of those.
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Hey All:
As a guy(and pretty new to the sceen) i find that when im on Speed i am to busy running around to even think about girls let alone trying to get them into bed, but on the other hand when im on a pill such as a 007 i just want to be touched and loved(E-love).I am still not really thinking about sex just the companionship now its not until i get home to my place where i live alone at the moment that i would love to have a girl there and not for the sex(this is going to sound stupid) but just for the cuddle, warmth and affection.
Keep Rocking, Keep Rocking, Keep Rocking
 
Well you seem to be getting a pretty decent response so.. carry on. I was more thinking where it was best suited rather than where it should go, the guidelines are kind of non-existant. I'm thinking you'll get more response in social, that's all. Perhaps post a link in there if you want more bulk in response.
 
Abby!
Totally can agree with you. I used to find when I was into rolling (almost every weekend at one stage) did not have a care for sex what so ever. A good peak, a good dance, speaking utter crap to strangers I'd never met before and lots of big warm fuzzy hugs were more fulfilling than sex. Go figure! I'd go home lie in bed have a smoke (of whatever and have that after sex glow!)
These days I'm a good boy and will pop probably once a month if that. (I'm a responsible adult now...yeahhhhh riiiiight! *lmao*)
Though on occassions I've been able to muster up the interest for a root when peaking, well I couldn't get my act together if you know what I mean. But sex on the comedown is just amazing, I freaked my partner out once. Just lying in bed and got all horny and was very up for it! Needless to say it was the best morning/afternoon comedown I had, probably better to spend it doing that than sitting at home in the lounge in the morning with friends, shaking your head in dismay....then forgetting what thought it was you were having and why you were shaking your head....watching TV like a zombie...that or playing drinking games with friends to make the comedown all that more bearable and fun!
Speed, makes the sex drive a total non-event.
Just too many simulaneous thoughts whizzing around in your head to be able to keep it on one thing! And of course Mr. willy does not want to come to the party.
I think E just brings out the physcological/emotional aspects of "love", a hug is never refused and just that interacting with people. The physical side of "love" (sex) is just forgotten. Gotta love those warm fuzzy hugs......
Just my random muddled thoughts.....
 
Frisky!
Glad you know what i mean . . . geeeeeeza!
I know i made the loss sound tragic (above) but that's just melodrama me, really the weird thing is i just don't give a fuck.
WHAT DO I NEED SEX FOR WHEN I'VE GOT DRUGS?
My concern was with the fact that obviously things inside have changed, and I wanted to know if this has happened to anyone else.
Yeah I'd prolly like it back one day, and on the odd occasion I think back . . .
but in reality:
"I'm having sex with music baby yeah!!!"
 
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