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Same feelings but for 6 different girls

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PhillipMcRevis

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So I'm just another Mexican in California and the thing is I've been single for a GOOD WHILE only cause I can't hold a relationship cause of cheating or liking too many girls and going for it all but now I'm talking to 6 different girls and I like them all but I don't know what to do I can't seem to break this habit I have what I'm saying is I'm stuck and confused what does one to when dealing with this any advice is appreciated I'm tired of running around looking for the perfect girl I'm stuck in a pickle here I try to narrow it down but it's hard and now these girls I talk to them and like them ALL THE SAME how is this people to care for many people????
I was raised and told by my uncle who raised me he said fuck em all and now it's haunting me knowing that I've hurt people and kept moving on for my amusement I hate it but I don't know anymore it seems theres no more girls who are willing to stay committed in so cal
 
You should take some of them on one on one dates and few on group dates and just tell them that roses are up for grabs. Then after a few dates narrow it down to two and make your choice on who you want to be with. Works for the 'Bachelor'. Good Luck man.
 
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What hurts me more than anything is having to read a wall of text with zero punctuation :(

Personally, I don't think there are no girls in SoCal willing to stay committed, but that you aren't finding them, because your goal, for a long time, was to find the exact opposite of such girls.
 
I find it hard to believe that your care about all of these girls equally. It's one thing to find them all attractive but one of them has to stick out for you.
 
Find out which one has feeling for you, I doubt all of them feel the same toward you. Is any of them that calls you the most? Find out which one likes you the most, and go with that one.
 
The stereotypes you are affirming in this post are hilarious.
 
As long as you're honest and never promise to be exclusive until (/IF) you sorted your head out, there is nothing wrong with seeing 6 women, until you realize which of them you'd rather single out...if at all.

Just make sure you're honest, and don't try and control things too much - you'll soon start to see things how they really are.

I would also consider the idea that you're too needy, and that you're not currently happy with yourself, so you may feel the need to attach yourself to many women to try and fill that void. Just a thought - I'm not telling you it definitely applies to you, OP.
 
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I only date mexican girls and worked at a Mexican restaurant and the stereotype of Mexican men wanting to screw anything has held up from what I have seen. I had a lot of Mexican friend, most illegal immigrants, and they never were faithful, and always trying to get me to get them some young girls to party with them. I did this because they were my friends and I don't care how many girls my friend has sex with.

I noticed my ex's family they all cheated, or were in secret and not so secret relationships with other women other than their wife.

I think it is just socially acceptable for Mexican men to be unfaithful, and it must be culturally inherited. I don't view it as a bad thing, but I wouldn't advise my daughter to date a man from Mexico, and would probably be stern against it. Sounds racist, and maybe it is, but I know a lot of Mexican women that have told me the same thing. I do like Mexicans though, so I hope this doesn't come of as ignorant. They have been my most loyal friends ever, and very generous. They are very much into treating their friends how their friends treat them, so I was treated very well. Americans lack this quality.

Overall Mexican male friends - my prefered friends
Mexican women - I have only dated them, so I can't say much about other races, but I like them a lot.
Mexican men dating your daughter - Better keep a bat around to chase him away.
 
It is probably lust. there are TONS of attractive people out there so it is perfectly normal to be attracted to many people. But when you find someone who you REALLY like ... stay faithful. It obviously isn't one of these six girls as none of them stick out to you. That's fine ... keep searching, hanging out with girls, until you find a girl that does stick out to you.
 
All of these 6 different girls are very pretty they have the whole thing there 919s and that's what I'm looking for I talk to them all everyday so all around equal and also I male time for each one of them but I like everything about them and they sweet talk to me and I know each one likes me I know that forsure thanks to a good friend of mine who told me and I can't decide which one to pick and honestly you guys thanks for that info and @dkmonk I have dated Mexican girls never works out and I'm just all about white girls they all like me and I'm really Stuck in this the only positive I have they don't really know each other the negative they kinda live in the same area and I don't wanna lose them as friends only cause there so hot and I care bout them what can I say I'm in a pickle
 
I find it funny how Mexican girls are attracted to me and I am a white male, and Mexican guy's tend to like white girls. Both the Mexican girls I have been with don't prefer Mexican men though. They say they are too short and dark. When I look for a Mexican girl I love short and dark.

I know one of the girls mom's always encouraged her to be with a tall white guy, and so that is her preference. I wonder if that might be a general theme.
 
I'm just a brown Mexican and all white girls love me like my ex was a white Mexican and we lasted 10 months but I cheated on her but I was with her cause I care and liked her and the sex I was with a Mexican girl for 2 months and it ended I got some from her but she preferred white guys the both of us being brown she didnt like it so your right opposites attract I get nothing but white girls and you get Mexican girls
 
That is what was so great about working at the Mexican restaurant was that I knew a bunch of white girls that were sexually promiscuous and didn't like them sexually, so I would invite them to party with my friends at work, and they would sometimes end up getting lucky with a young white girl. They didn't have very fluent English and being in a small town it was a little harder for them to get some action without being able to go to clubs and stuff, so I would bring the action to them, and tell the girls how cool my friends were and it was natural that girls who like to have sex a lot and a horny guys would end up getting it on.

I felt for them, because I knew it must suck living in a redneck town when you don't speak English well, are dark skinned, and an immigrant. We have a lot of racist people in town, so understood how they felt intimidated and isolated to just the restaurant and the house they lived in.
 
You don't have feelings for all of them.
You maybe care for them, maybe want to fuck all of them but you don't have true feelings for all 6...
 
hiphophippy said:
Punch yourself in the dick.
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ahaha this made me laugh so much

OP- when you want to have sex with 6 different people its because you're horny, there is no meaning behind this desire other than hormones, spunk and pork sword antics.

i grew out of wanting to fuck everyone at around 21 years old, the novelty of new sex is less intense than when i was 15. once you get laid you'll lose some of that dribbling dick syndrome. for now carry a tissue as your pants sound sticky :p
 
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I do care about each one of them and I do want to fuck them they all turn me on and I like them equally it's weird I never experienced this before and @dkmonk I do try and bring the action to them seperatly and also when I was working in an area I didn't know much everyone knew Spanish but not English so I helped them out and also partied with them and got some @pofacedhoe when I was 15 I had gotten alot and I know people who are 21 and older and more horny than me which is alot
 
MD Specialist said:
You should take some of them on one on one dates and few on group dates and just tell them that roses are up for grabs. Then after a few dates narrow it down to two and make your choice on who you want to be with. Works for the 'Bachelor'. Good Luck man.
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LOL I fuckin' ROFL'd.
 
Man, keep them seperate and continue to have sex with them, and pick which ones are your favorite and narrow your list down to 3 it will be a lot easier to spend time with them that way, and you also minimize chances of getting an STD by 50 percent.
 
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