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Damnitfeelsgood

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I am in a new relationship, and I am rolling with my girlfriend with intentions of getting closer to her. Now , I do not love her yet... I hope ecstasy does not complicate things? She has never done it and I told her about how you tell people you loe them alot and stuff. What can I do?
 
Didn't mean to make it confusing sorry im pretty high. but what can I do to not complicate the relationship from the I love yous from the E?
 
There is not much you can do other than having a frank and honest coversation about it before you drop the pills. It sounds like this girl knows little more about MDMA other than "how you tell people you loe them alot and stuff". Maybe it would be a good idea for you to introduce her to this site so that she can become educated about E before jumping in with both feet.
 
Why would you say something that you didn't mean? ;)

I think you're working yourself up over nothing. Do you think that your girlfriend currently loves you, even though you have only been together a short while?
 
I didn't think of it as saying something I didn't mean, its just that sometimes when rolling really hard I'd tell anyone I love them because at the time... I do love them cause I'm rolling
 
Damnitfeelsgood said:
Didn't mean to make it confusing sorry im pretty high. but what can I do to not complicate the relationship from the I love yous from the E?
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XTC love is XTC love. I fall in love with people a lot on E if roll with them alone. Roll with someone else or, after you come down, don't talk to her for a couple weeks. Both will negate the (generally) fake effects of XTC love.

On that note, XTC Love is a badass song ~.^ XTCCCC LOOVVVVVVEEEEEE, YAH!!
 
most of the time even if you take more then anuff exstacy you will feel good but not in love with them....if you dont feel that way now den a drug wont make u feel it again later

just roll with her n get her done real hard till shes moanin then the next morin be nowehere to be found.

game over problem solved, 10 points for u
 
you'll be fine. As long as it's not one on one. Make sure to keep everyone involved. If someone gets left out things can turn sour. That's how it always happened to me >.<
 
AylaV said:
you'll be fine. As long as it's not one on one. Make sure to keep everyone involved. If someone gets left out things can turn sour. That's how it always happened to me >.<
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I'm not too sure a threesome is a good idea with such a new relationship. ;)
 
Here's how you avoid the problem: you don't roll with her. E acts like an emotional amplifier. You roll together, both of your emotions will be amped to the max; after it wears off you'll be back to baseline. Maybe something new clicks between you & maybe it doesn't. If it does, awesome. If not, it could be hard for one or both of you dealing with the conflict between what you felt on E & what you feel after it. It's a roll of the dice, so to speak.

The question you need to ask yourself is, are the two of you at a place in your relationship where you can handle having your emotions kickstarted like a rocket? If so, go for it. If not, well, you know what happens to people who play with fire.
 
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A while ago I came across this thread and realized not to ever listen to a single piece of advice Master Splinter gives. :p

OP, sounds like you've come around and realized this is all in your head. If you think there's all this pressure, then there will be. If you think it'll just be a fun, silly night that helps three friends bond and get to know each other better, then it will be! :D
 
What I would do is, explain to her the situation while you're both rolling.

Like,

"Listen I want us to be clear on something ... I feel really good about this relationship even though it really hasn't progressed all that far just yet, and I know it's too early to call it real love but right now I feel GREAT about you and you seem like a really, really fantastic girl and I'm totally sold! And I really hope that in the future our relationship blossoms into real love and I know that the only thing that keeps it from being real love right now is that we haven't known each other long enough to really 'get there' yet I guess, but I WANT to and I'm willing to put the work into the relationship that will get us there. Before we took these pills I was already really happy that you were in my life, but I was worried that the pills would put emotions into my brain that I wasn't ready for, and now I'm rolling and you're rolling and we've got all these emotions between us because we're rolling and I'm ready to feel these emotions all the time and I want to, and I know that after we come down we might not feel these emotions again for a little while because we won't be rolling anymore, but I also know that if we care about getting closer to each other, these emotions will develop on their own, without us needing to take pills, and then this relationship will be what I think we both want it to be, and I just wanted to show you that I felt this way and I wanted to also ask how you feel about me? And I think if you say you love me right now I'll just think it's the pills, but that's OK, because I ate pills too and I love you right now too, and we'll both come down and maybe it won't be the same tomorrow as it is today, but that's OK too, because if we work at it, this relationship can become like this all the time! And I'm excited about that. ::deep breath::"

That's just how I'd imagine a rolling person who felt the way you do would say what I think you might want to say.

Good luck! Just, seriously, really ... DON'T be scared to tell the WHOLE truth.
 
Ummmm pans. Good advice...buuuuutt, its sweeties first time on MDMA, and I know when Im proper fucked I do good to pay attention to a couple sentences and reply with a cohesive answer......Soooo maybe alter that convo for BEFORE the pills get dropped.


My .02 USD
 
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