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Bestrd1234

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Myself and my buddy would go out to get some dope from a dealor. It was his connections. He would leave the car and then come back with the price. Turns out he was doubling the price never tell me and pocket the rest. How do I handle this? I should of know better
 
Depends what you're like, if you were a violent confrontational type you would have dealt with it already imo.
If you're not like that, firstly congratulations and good on you for not succumbing to the seductive call to work your friend head to toe with a Louisville slugger.

Another option is to phone him to let him know what you know and ask for an explanation (there isn't an excuse beyond - dope fiend who stoops to that shit. See what he has to say, if sorry isn't one of the first words out his mouth then say thanks but no thanks on furthering this relationship.

Another option, call him out on it then tell him/her not to contact you any more and hang up. Find a new friend, if they have to be into dope hopefully it's just a new thing and they haven't reached the "rip off my mates and family stage. Now you call the shots and can decide to be fair or otherwise you can treat the noob how your ex mate the thieving bastard treated you.

Take care good luck.
 
He was a good friend but whatever now.
I had a feeling and went to the dealor and ask him about the prices. That how I found out. So
 
Using hard drugs and needing them changes a person and makes him do sh+t he otherwise wouldnt. But imo it doesnt change them deep down, more like cover their personality, decency etc.. for a while. So if that friend is a really good friend and cares about you, if you txt to him something like "I went to the guy and scr+w you, I thought we were friends, whyd you do that to me" or sth alike, he ought to respond apologetically and with lots of regret. He'll try to stay friends. If hes not worth keeping as a friend then im guessing he wont bother even much beyond "yeah sorry" if even that.
 
par for the course. you were both using each other. placid's got some good advice. let the friend know you found out. see how he reacts and if he's interested in making it up to you in anyway. decide whether that's a friendship you want to salvage or walk away from. either way, no point in hating him.
 
This is why going through a middleman sucks. If you're gonna use regularly, you're gonna want to find a reliable(this can be hard to come by, lol) dealer(s).
 
He started using alot more and his whole attitude was different. He sold me fake pills a few weeks ago and blame the dealor. I am just going to walk away
 
Bestrd1234, welcome to the bad end of addiction. It is almost a normal thing when dealing with drugs, some people will want to deny this characteristic but is cannot be denied because addicts are driven to "get" Just repeat the action when the roles are reversed, it is VERY common.
 
Bestrd1234 said:
He started using alot more and his whole attitude was different. He sold me fake pills a few weeks ago and blame the dealor. I am just going to walk away
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when it gets to whoever is selling you bunk you must cut off your dealings with those people, it will get to the point where no one will buy from him and whoever sells to him will give it to him HARD, yes walk away from these people.
 
Absolutely. Do not lose your humanity. Do not become bitter and do not be consumed by anger and thoughts of revenge, once you start doing shady things it becomes easier to keep doing them. It's a vicious cycle of lying and using and losing self respect and empathy for others. I have been fucked over countless times and I saw myself wanting to get revenge and now I'm trying to quit while I still have some decency.

This is a learning experience. If you roll with a lot of junkies it might encourage the other pieces of shit to take advantage of you. Always be on guard and be in the know. Always have direct interactions with the dealer when you can so you know that you aren't being duped by the middle man. It is a classic hustle and now that you know you can try to avoid it in the future.
 
Bestrd1234 said:
I made friends with the dealor and he cut him off
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good, keep your name good and clean so when your short$$ he may trust you enough to front you a little. Once your name gets strikes it's COD. I have a lb credit with my man for weed but I know he would do as much as I wanted because I've never fucked him and have known him for over 35yrs. If I did fuck him over I would feel like shit but I would talk to him first so no fucking is needed.
 
never let another junky cop for you-golden rule (I just got off the streets after 2 plus years of homelessness, even my best friends would dope fiend me). if you don't have a connect, find out where a methadone clinic is and you'll be golden (and I'm not saying to get on methadone)
 
jjones0207 said:
What oxyfen said, keep your name valid.

THE STREETS! lol
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Haha yeah. I was just talking about this with someone recently actually, how there's "credit" in the drug world just like there is in normal life. Keep your credit rating high (no pun intended)
 
Well you learn from your mistakes.

NEVER give your money to anyoneeeeee before you cop your shit. Dealer, friend, drug buddy, NO ONE.

I dont really understand why, if you had the dealers contact info, or able to contact him yourself, why you didn't just go that route to begin with? Trust and believe that the dealer doesn't care who he knew first... Only about making that sale.

Him pawning things is not your fault, as it is not your responsibility to support his habit. That is not your issue; don't let it consume you or bother you. Just because it is their connect, doesn't mean you owe them product... ESP every time. Maybe the first time he INTRODUCES you, if anything, but not for just coping for you every time... He badically took advantage of you twice.

Confront them. Tell them you know, it isnt appreciated, and that any trust you still may have had, is now gone. Then live and learn and move on. Don't sweat it too muvh, you're gonna get beat a lot in the game, esp if you aren't careful. It happens. Move on. :)
 
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