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Dontknownemore
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Please put this in SLR. I love all my peeps in there great advice.
Ok to start off. Me and this girl have been talking for 2 months now.
Two nights ago She told me she loved me. Which cleared up any doubts I had. Overall its been great but we still have our moments when it isnt. Love her so much.
So we were having a great night. I asked her how she'd like if i called her my girlfriend, She looked at me hugged me and started kissing me. And then drops the bomb that she doesnt know. We'll of course alarm bells go off in my head.
Something im not proud of i snooped thru her phone. Very wrong and i have never snooped thru someone's stuff/phone before Wont do it again It just causes more hurt than the doubts to begin with. But I was right i can see why she isnt sure.
She was talking to a friend who likes her and told him that she still loves her ex. And he asked if she found him the dude she was texting physically attractive which she said she did.
My head is a mess now. Im trying to let it go and just relax i mean she's said im the only guy she's seeing/fucking. But these texts just correlate that she isnt into me a 100 percent. How can you tell someone you love them while still being in love with your ex thats not right imo.
What should I do? Try and get her to open up about her feelings towards us her ex etc or just give it time?. I want to be her boyfriend and not just some guy she see's regularly and fucks all while wishing i was her ex and thats how i feel now. I feel so lost and unsure about something i was 100 percent commited to. were both in our late 20's also.
Ok to start off. Me and this girl have been talking for 2 months now.
Two nights ago She told me she loved me. Which cleared up any doubts I had. Overall its been great but we still have our moments when it isnt. Love her so much.
So we were having a great night. I asked her how she'd like if i called her my girlfriend, She looked at me hugged me and started kissing me. And then drops the bomb that she doesnt know. We'll of course alarm bells go off in my head.
Something im not proud of i snooped thru her phone. Very wrong and i have never snooped thru someone's stuff/phone before Wont do it again It just causes more hurt than the doubts to begin with. But I was right i can see why she isnt sure.
She was talking to a friend who likes her and told him that she still loves her ex. And he asked if she found him the dude she was texting physically attractive which she said she did.
My head is a mess now. Im trying to let it go and just relax i mean she's said im the only guy she's seeing/fucking. But these texts just correlate that she isnt into me a 100 percent. How can you tell someone you love them while still being in love with your ex thats not right imo.
What should I do? Try and get her to open up about her feelings towards us her ex etc or just give it time?. I want to be her boyfriend and not just some guy she see's regularly and fucks all while wishing i was her ex and thats how i feel now. I feel so lost and unsure about something i was 100 percent commited to. were both in our late 20's also.
