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quitting opiates is fucking my sex life up

lman_15

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Before drugs I loved sex, during my addiction I loved sex, everything about it, the sensations leading up to it, the after feeling, the feeling of completely dominating a women in bed, but before doing opiates and during my opiate use that was always good and cool and that's the way I'd perform. I've quit opiates a couple times never for any serious amount of time, now I am currently going from 75mg of methadone to suboxone and I'm fucked like my body is hyper sensitive and I know in my current state (hyper sensitive) I've gunna be bustin loads quickly just cuz that's the way quitting opiates goes at least the way it goes for me and 99% of my friends who quit. Anyways is there anything I can do to help get me back to "normal" (i.e. not hyper sensitive) that is aside from using opiates or waiting how ever long its gunna take for my body to reboot itself, I'm like literarily at my last resort here cuz my sexual performance really transpires into how I feel about myself and I know if I don't do nothing and just wait it out I'll prob just relapse, BTW I've never had a problem with this before I started using opiates or during my opiate use, this is purely when I quit opiates or get on suboxone am hyper sensitive and just fuck up
 
I literarily just switched from methadone 75mg a day for 5 months, to 8, 12mg hydromorph contin (snorted) pills a day for 7 days, then to 8mg of suboxone, which I've been in serious precipitated withdrawal for the past 2 days since I've switched and just feel shit... is there anything I can do about this bullshit? Will taking benzo's help? Is there any drug I can use to help until my sensitivity gets back to normal?
 
so is there anything I could do to help get my sensitivity down? cuz literarily I can rub my cock for 2 seconds and I cum I'm seriously hypersensitive and i know its from the opiates, and i don't really wanna have to wait weeks, maybe even months to get back to normal, so i'm just wondering from people who have experieence with quitting opiates how u deal with that aspect of quitting? advice, tips, etc, wud be helpful?
 
how about wait a while and give it time. everyone wants to cum shitloads when they are coming off opiates, dont use this performance fear as a crutch to justify a prolonged addiction.

just have more sex, the catch with this situation is you will be able to get it back up really quickly and after maybe five ejaculations you will slow down. dont suppress your urges, go with them, this is a time for healing and having lots of horny rapid orgasms is a way to distract yourself from other more intestinal problems;)

whenever quitting opiates i just go with it and cum shitloads having amazing orgasms. holding your jizz in forever isn't what makes good sex. its paying attention to your partner and tending to their needs. if you cum, chill and go again in a while. whats the big deal?
 
pofacedhoe said:
how about wait a while and give it time. everyone wants to cum shitloads when they are coming off opiates, dont use this performance fear as a crutch to justify a prolonged addiction.

just have more sex, the catch with this situation is you will be able to get it back up really quickly and after maybe five ejaculations you will slow down. dont suppress your urges, go with them, this is a time for healing and having lots of horny rapid orgasms is a way to distract yourself from other more intestinal problems;)

whenever quitting opiates i just go with it and cum shitloads having amazing orgasms. holding your jizz in forever isn't what makes good sex. its paying attention to your partner and tending to their needs. if you cum, chill and go again in a while. whats the big deal?
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excellent response thank you
 
thanks

for me opiates made me unable cum when someone else was doing *insert sexual technique* so being able to cum freely was a luxury. i was only on low dose poppy tea but when your hookup bursts quickly and you cant even get close it kinda kills the mood as everyone wants to feel skilled during ego sex which is what hook ups are

what i'm saying is look for the silver lining. a lot harder with a bigger habit but trust me it will be there
 
Yeah, you should just be patient and wait it out, your normal sexual function will come back eventually. It's perfectly normal for you to be much more sensitive after quitting opiates and I wouldn't recommend looking for other drugs to accelerate the 'healing' process. Your body just needs some time to re-adjust to life without them.
 
For me, there's always a couple of weeks between when I quit and when I even get my sex drive back. I'm 5 days clean right now, but I honestly could take it or leave it right now. The mechanics of it don't really concern me (though the same thing would happen...). I just lose my libido completely when I'm going hard with heroin and it takes a while for it to come back. But it typically comes roaring back.

It better come back before my current window of opportunity closes.
 
wank before? not being able to cum is one of the main reasons i'm trying to stop heroin, just sucks after so much effort to not orgasm, the first cum after stopping for a few days was the most amazing thing in the world.
 
In the short term it works for learning to control premature ejaculation but it's not a holistic approach, therefore it is not helpful for someone's whole sex life - as it just deals with one symptom which is temporary.

Overall it will be detrimental to someone's vitality to jerk off a few times everyday just for the sake of lasting a bit longer - you can achieve the same thing by masturbating one day a week/even month (so much less draining), using the right ancient techniques...as specified in the PE thread(s)/

Generally teh first time you have sex the first time is always going to be shorter than the subsquent arousal-plateau-orgasm/ejaculations in a session/day.

It is much better to spend one whole day of fucking than to fuck once a day - the same goes for masturbation.
 
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