Have you ever tried Valerian Root, even in a higher dose than they say in the bottle? Mine says take 3; I've taken twice that.
It's not a heavy hitter for me but does help. Some say they get no benefit from it, others swear by it, and so you have the fact that literally evey body is different. You'll only know if you try it. It's a supplement able to be found at most drug stores and many grocery stores.
Best of luck hon.
Peace. Xo
Edit: I find I feel best when regularly taking copious amounts of vitamin c and drinking an ounce or two a day of liquid magnesium citrate. The vitamin.c.helps me feel better overall in general, and the magnesium us actually a muscle relaxant and can aid with anxiety and restlessness. It us insanely inexpensive in this form, sold as a laxative. I find I need to drink half or more of a.bottle to have that effect. So, an ounce or two a day does not leave me running to the bathroom if youre worried. Try it on a friday night if you wanna test it.
Best to take before bed as it can add to relaxation.
I might try valerian with it for anxiety, restlessness, and for sleep.
Again, it's an aid, not equal to taking a xan.bar or anything.
But it helps.
Peace. Xo