off subject, but is it bad to?

[bc]

wind up in bed with a recruit for your college while she's touring? the age difference is only a year, but i feel like some cheesy scene out of a college football movie, like i slept with her to get her to go here. it's not really like that, it was a nice situation the whole way, just wondering if it was unethical and whatnot

btw...just to make sure there's no questions,
i'm a freshman guy, and she's a girl, senior in high school, being recruited for golf of all things

plur, happy rolling and all that goodness.
~bc
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[Rachel]

well, i had a close friend who did a similar thing when she was a freshman in college and a male senior in high school visited.
unfortunately, what you did with this girl will affect her decision to go to the school-- and it could very well be for the wrong decisions (ie: she wants to date you during college.... or she might be so embarassed about her behavior later that she would not want to go to the school anymore).
outcome of my friend's good time? the student did not end up going to the college.
but, people are only human-- and therefore are not perfect. you should probably refrain from this behavior in the future. the decision of which college to go to is difficult enough to make without throwing another issue into the equation. just my 2 cents.
PLUR-Rachel

 

[EckstahsE]

Pardon my blatent MALE-ness but..
HELL YEAH!!! you fucking stud. As a member or the male species i give you mad props!!! keep up the good work. I am proud.
PLUR (i.e cook em breakfast before you kick em out

j/k)
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-EckstashE-

 

[Clinton]

what a whore!!! (the chick of course)
just another notch on the belt huh studdogg

 

[bc]

oi. not another notch in the belt. that's not how i want to think of it.
but, we had a really good convo today. she wants to come here, but not just because of me. on the otherhand, she plans on "touring" the campus again. hmmm....mucho thought is going to go into this one....
other notes of interest: got to try my new tongue ring (glow w/ a hoop) with her. definite pluses from both parties.
apparently, in her informed opinion, i have a "ghetto-booty"....still trying to decide if that's a good or a bad. opinions?
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[abygale]

I say, from my position as girl not offended by blatant male-ness, it takes two. If she wants to add that factor into her college decision, it's up to her. i've found that it's hard enough to guess and second-guess my own motivations without trying to second-guess all the other person's issues as well. not to say that i'm callous, but i think if you get yourself there you should be responsible for the consequences you face. old led zepellin tune (gasp!) comes to mind - 'nobody's fault but mine ... '
- aby