Odd correlation

[LogicSoDeveloped]

First off, mods, feel free to lock/delete this if it is against the rules.

So for some reason, when I'm single, I can barely get any communication with different women, however, when I get in a relationship, it seems like all of a sudden, all of these girls I've known over the last few years start contacting me as well as flirting with me (even the waitress when I was out to eat with my gf, wtf?). This seems to happen again and again.

I'm not complaining at all btw, my gf and I have definitely had our issues but I'm really happy with her now, its just something odd I've noticed. Has anyone else had this experience?

Like I said, if it doesn't make sense, I understand.

 

[severely etarded]

people tend to want things that seem unavailable to them. It's an odd phenomenon seen in human behavior

 

[BlueSaffron]

I'm guessing it also has to do with a different vibe you put out - happy, confident, relaxed, not "on the make".

 

[pofacedhoe]

its the lack of desperation vibes on your part coupled with women desiring what isn't available.

also if you are in love it gives you a vibe that is very attractive to others

 

[cashfl0w_d0nkey]

I think what happens is the girls judge the girl you are with and try to be competitive with them. I don't think it's about the vibe projected as much. I've dated a few older women in my day and girls don't act the same way when it's a younger guy their age with an older woman, even though I act the same. The reason for this I feel is that they cannot picture themselves in the role of the older woman. When a girl sees a guy she finds suitable with a girl she feels she can compete with, I think that's when you see what you've described.

As for why it doesn't happen when you are single, I think the answer is clearly that women judge a man's attractiveness by his attractiveness to other women. When girls sense that other girls find a guy attractive, that makes him more attractive.

 

[pofacedhoe]

OP do you notice any difference when your girlfriend is not with you compared to when you are single?

 

[Beachcat]

its the lack of desperation vibes on your part coupled with women desiring what isn't available.

also if you are in love it gives you a vibe that is very attractive to others

I agree with this 100%.

I really is interesting that this happens, I have seen it myself many times. I really think it has to do with vibes that people give off when they are in relationships....