We aren't dating. At this point, she is just a friend and a 'woman of interest'.
When we talk on the phone, I am the one doing 90% of the talking. She told me when I asked her. That she isn't shy. She just doesn't know what to talk about. I asked her if I was boring. Same answer as her possibly being shy. She doesn't know what to talk about.
She lives presently with a guy she has known since they were both 16(1984).
Eons ago, she asked him about 'going steady'. He rebuffed her.
When I call her, they still have a background conversation like I am an afterthought. It isn't frequent, but it happens.
Recently, When I was on the phone with her one night. The guy decided to go for a walk. When she heard that, she immediately told me that she was going to go for a walk with him. He immediately responded by telling her to stay on the phone with me. Then, After he left, she said she was going to go lay down.
In the Fall of last year when I told her that I no longer had to save up for a bike computer I needed to buy. She hoped I would use the saved money, to put towards flying out there, to visit her.
Recently, She broke her arm. He contacted me on Facebook, sending me a pic of the X-ray. I don't know if she asked him to do that for her, or he did it himself. She knows I care about her.
But, I wonder why I am saving the money, if it is me doing most of the communicating.
Any feedback would be appreciated.
When we talk on the phone, I am the one doing 90% of the talking. She told me when I asked her. That she isn't shy. She just doesn't know what to talk about. I asked her if I was boring. Same answer as her possibly being shy. She doesn't know what to talk about.
She lives presently with a guy she has known since they were both 16(1984).
Eons ago, she asked him about 'going steady'. He rebuffed her.
When I call her, they still have a background conversation like I am an afterthought. It isn't frequent, but it happens.
Recently, When I was on the phone with her one night. The guy decided to go for a walk. When she heard that, she immediately told me that she was going to go for a walk with him. He immediately responded by telling her to stay on the phone with me. Then, After he left, she said she was going to go lay down.
In the Fall of last year when I told her that I no longer had to save up for a bike computer I needed to buy. She hoped I would use the saved money, to put towards flying out there, to visit her.
Recently, She broke her arm. He contacted me on Facebook, sending me a pic of the X-ray. I don't know if she asked him to do that for her, or he did it himself. She knows I care about her.
But, I wonder why I am saving the money, if it is me doing most of the communicating.
Any feedback would be appreciated.
