New to the forum. Need advice on how to network irl.

[Rand Omperson]

Hello. Finally made myself an account here. I’ve always come to bluelight when I’ve had questions in the past because I can usually find the answer here. I was wondering how to go about finding like minded individuals that are local to hang out and party. I’m not a very outward social person. More of the introvert type. There’s gotta be other folk out there like me. I’d like to just hang out and have a fun time. Any advice? Any way to go about doing this without looking like I’m a cop or creep? Please and thank you.

 

[VerbalTruist]

Depends on what you’re looking for. What your local scene is like. How old you are… I mean, maybe get involved in a hobby. There has to be a place where you can meet people, make friends, and get a read on their extracurricular activities.

 

[Rand Omperson]

I was thinking more along the way of online-based. That’s what I mean because I’m not very social and I’m kind of awkward introvert even when I go places and try to meet people live in normal human being I just tend to keep to myself. I know back in the day there you should be like kik rooms and stuff like that. I’m pretty sure everything is overrun with porn bots these days. Was wondering if there’s any sort of resource that I’m not aware of kind of like OK Cupid but for like-minded mind altering fellows like myself. Not even dating wise. I mean sure, that’s it it had benefit but I’m just talking about people hanging out and what not. I’ve been in town for almost 2 years now and basically have one plug and may be a few friends. Most of them don’t use, and the ones that do are very flaky.

 

[PtahTek]

I’d like to just hang out and have a fun time

I was thinking more along the way of online-based

Social media would be an option. I am more of the olderish go out of home and being in public (as much as it pains me sometimes) to network. Most of the time I find that my network is usually coworker based. I run up on peoe all the time but most I do not see again and if I do it is rarely. We only need others when we have a need or want... maybe figure out what it is exacly that is wanted from network and evolve from there? Having fun is tailored to each of us so....
Welcome to bluelight. Hoping you find what youre looking for. Try to be safe on this journey and stay aware.
Peace

 

[VerbalTruist]

I was thinking more along the way of online-based. That’s what I mean because I’m not very social and I’m kind of awkward introvert even when I go places and try to meet people live in normal human being I just tend to keep to myself. I know back in the day there you should be like kik rooms and stuff like that. I’m pretty sure everything is overrun with porn bots these days. Was wondering if there’s any sort of resource that I’m not aware of kind of like OK Cupid but for like-minded mind altering fellows like myself. Not even dating wise. I mean sure, that’s it it had benefit but I’m just talking about people hanging out and what not. I’ve been in town for almost 2 years now and basically have one plug and may be a few friends. Most of them don’t use, and the ones that do are very flaky.

If you’re looking for people to chat with Bluelight has a Discord. That might be a good spot. Unless you’re looking for romantic partners, I can’t help you on that front. Haven’t dated in more than a decade.

I’ve been in town for almost 2 years now and basically have one plug and may be a few friends. Most of them don’t use, and the ones that do are very flaky.

We can’t help you find drugs. Bluelight isn’t for that. Good people to chat and connect with, but you have to take your sourcing desires elsewhere.