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Chris750

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i am a 16 year old boy. i am curently sexually active with my boyfriend(17 y/old) and when we have sex ive noticed that he seems to shoot much farther than me if u understad what im trying to say. in fact when i ejaculate it doesnt go far at all it just seems to come out. at the very most it might shoot out an inch and thats only if we havent had sex in a while. so my question is why does this happen and should i be worried? also how can i make myself cum more and farther?
 
Some guys are just heavy cummers ! No need to worry about it.

Increasing your hydration, more foreplay (edging especially) can help, I could say kegal exercise but not sure if that would improve your distance or volume.

I'm not sure how often your wanking but giving yourself a break can help also.
 
Try going without for 4 weeks. Last time I did that when I finally came I was sitting down and got a bit on the face and the rest went over my head, and then more just poured out. Quite impressive how much you can store up :D
 
Some guys are just heavy cummers ! No need to worry about it.

Increasing your hydration, more foreplay (edging especially) can help, I could say kegal exercise but not sure if that would improve your distance or volume.

I'm not sure how often your wanking but giving yourself a break can help also.
Yes in my opinion increase the hydration is very important. ;)
 
Many things effect ejaculation. The amount of ejaculatory, the quality and as you put it, how far you shoot.

These things are -
Hydration.
Diet.
Time inbetween ejaculation.
The strength of your pubococcygeus muscle.

Hydration, we're talking about drinking the recommended amounts of water each day, which at the moment is around 2-3 litres. That is if you aren't doing any vigorous exercise.

Diet, we are talking, high proteins, low fats/sugars. Fructose sugars are fine, which are found in fruits(fruits are also meant to make your cum sweeter).

Time inbetween ejaculating is pretty self explanatory. Fluids build up etc....

The pubococcygeus muscle, is the muscle which stretches from your anus to the tip of your cock. When you tense your cock, you are tensing your pubococcygeus muscle. This muscle can effect how far you shoot your load. To strengthen this muscle you can do kegel exercises.
 
Don't worry about it mate. The first few times I orgasmed around 13/14 years old I didn't ejaculate any cum at all. It wasn't till I got to 17/18 that I started to properly shoot a load. Pretty sure I was only dribbling at your age. Give it some time.
 
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