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klaas

klaas

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I caught my self slipping again and now I dug myself deeper into a hole I can't dig my self out of.

Long story short my rent's found some beans in my room. I ended up telling them I've done E for a while now (started last year and my bean counts is in the 40's). Right when thing's start to look up the walls come crashing down on me.
What do I do??.... they've taken my phone away, put a curfew on me. I'm almost 20 by the way. I work part time and go to school. this is fkn bull shit.

was it a mistake to tell them the truth. they're honestly thinking about putting me in rehab.
 
You're almost 20 and they took away your phone and put you under curfew? Do they pay for your phone? They can't put you in rehab, you're an adult. If they tell you to go to rehab and you don't feel it would be good for you (you should do less ecstasy, but rehab is almost definitly not neccesary) then just refuse.

You're an adult and your parents should treat you like one. It is their house though, so you should perhaps respect their rules since you're old enough to move out now. That's questionable in this case though, because their rules are stupid. Perhaps you could talk to them about the potential benifets of MDMA and reassure them a bit about it, as well as asserting the fact that you're an adult who can make their own choices. It probably wouldn't help though.

You are 20 though, so they can't put you in rehab, they can't take away your phone if it's your phone (as in, they don't pay for it), and they can't put a curfew on you. They can kick you out of their house though, so take that for what you will.
 
You should move out if you want to live life on your own terms...
even then you are subject to their opinion because they are your parents.

They raised you and gave up everything for you. I probably shortened my parent's life expectancy by all my bs and rebellion.
 
Your parents are acting on fear and worry. They are looking out for your well-being in a way they think will work.

In your situation, I would suggest following their rules. Your biggest priority right now should be school, and it's much easier to graduate on time if you don't have to support yourself by working full-time. Do what you can to show them you are a responsible adult (by not giving them any reason to expect you are doing drugs for starters) and your life will be much easier while under their roof.

As far as rehab goes, sit them down and tell them that you are done experimenting, and you are completely capable of stopping drug use on your own. Politely refuse to go to rehab.

When you're 22, hopefully you'll have a degree so you can work more, move out and enjoy more freedom.
 
you've rolled 40 times in the past year?

It sounds like you are well on your way to becoming a straight up e-tard. You should understand that you are lucky to have parents that care about you so much. I wish my parents were like yours.
 
yoboy said:
you've rolled 40 times in the past year?

It sounds like you are well on your way to becoming a straight up e-tard. You should understand that you are lucky to have parents that care about you so much. I wish my parents were like yours.
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He's taken over 40 pills, which is still far too much ecstasy, but it isn't quite as bad as rolling 40 times in the last year. It's still way too much to be taking.
 
^ The OP said he started rolling last year AND his bean count is in the 40s
so he has in fact, taken 40 in the past year
 
wow that sucks! that was a total mistake on your part in telling them everything..
If their still paying for your phone and you are 20, something is wrong tho...

If I were to recommend something it would be:
Go to the summer massives, and just buy at the rave (just go to pillreports, know which good pills are circulating right now, but mainly just look for any pokes)
It would be dumb to miss out on the summer massives, espeically if you are not going to school right now.
then just take the fall off when your school starts until the heat dies down.
Then just roll next around halloween and then at new years.

Maybe you can reason with them so they still let you go to the summer massives at least?
 
Sorry to say but your going to have to become financially independent of yur rents if you hope to seek your freedom...

If I were you I would be patient and co-operate for a bit longer...(they do put food on your place and a free roof over your head)

there will be plenty of time to roll and throw private parties once you got your own place. Just be patient.
 
It wasnt a mistake telling them at all - You are an adult and what you do (outside of their house) is your choice and yours alone (regardless on how others view your behaviour).

You thought that by having an honest conversation with them and telling them about your life choices then it would be better than lying to them.

A few things arise from this though - at 20 what were your parents doing snooping around your room? My biggest problem would be how they are treating you - taking away your phone and giving you a curfew, your not 8 years old.

Yes living in their home comes with rules and conditions but that works both ways.

I would imagine that in a few days after the 'OMG my sons on Drugs' has sunk in a bit then you can have an open and honest conversation about things.
 
Here put this song on for your parents:

Armand Van Helden - You Don't Know Me

The lyrics:

You don't even know me
You say that I'm not livin' right
You don't understand me
So why do you judge my life

I don't ask for nothing
I'm always holding my own
Every time I turn around, there's something
People talking 'bout what they don't know
And when I try to move on up
They're always pullin' me down
I'm tired and I've had enough
It's my life, and i'm living it now

J/K Sorry but this song was playing when I was reading your post and I just couldn't control myself. This song goes so well with the topic of your post.

On a more serious post, like others have said give them some time to think things over and then try to talk them about how talking your phone away and imposing a curfew is not really a legitimate solution to this "problem". Perhaps explain to them how having a phone is essential for your job and school. I don't know, every pair of parents is different and IME require a personalized way to approach them.
 
Man, i dont know why but i hate it when people call there parents there rents.

Anyways, last october my parents found out i did e. They grounded me for 2 months, oct.4 to dec.4, took away my phone, my laptop, and all outside communication with the world. I was allowed to be at school, at work or at home, no where else. The only time i saw my friends who didn't go to my school was once when i took my dog for a walk and met up with them. I was 16 at the time.

Once my grounding was over they only let me return to a normal life if i agreed to go to aadac meetings. It wasn't so bad, and if they want to send you to rehab or whatever then tell them you will take drug courses. From all my friends who have been caught with drugs, getting caught with pills is always the worst as the media leads everyone to believe that all pills have rat poison in them, or take ice cream scoops out of your brain or some bullshit like that.

psychomimetic said:
He's taken over 40 pills, which is still far too much ecstasy, but it isn't quite as bad as rolling 40 times in the last year. It's still way too much to be taking.
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Man, i wish i found out about bluelight long before i started doing pills. By the time i found bl ive done at least 30 pills and that was in a months time.
 
Well your parents have the right to do those things . You are 20 and living with them .

I myself know it's hard to get out there by yourself and move away from the rents .(mainly money lol)

but yeah dude , until you move the fuck out they pretty much controll ya :(
 
Follow their rules, keep your nose clean and make a conscious effort to "turn yourself around." And then move out as soon as you can.
 
Pills vary in how much MDMA is in them....

some people might have swallow 3 pills to get what another person will get from One good one...

Personally i rather take one good one rather swallow more pills....
but some people do not have that choice.... so understand when people say they took 40 pills within their rolling career...

That does not make it any worse than someone who took 10 good ones....it just matters on the quality of pills the person gets...

-unbreakable
 
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