I do not like my current psychiatrist.
I had to switch to him recently after I was forcibly taken off of my Klonopin (which I wish I could have back).
So since I got off the Klonopin my social anxiety has returned and the Prozac I've been on for years is no longer sufficient to take care of the problem.
My therapist, who is pretty nice, suggested I try Luvox because he heard that it's better for Social Anxiety than some other SSRIs and I looked it up on WebMd and it said this was true and as I looked at other SSRIs descriptions it said that some were geared more towards helping with anxiety and others depression etc.
However, today I saw my psychiatrist and told him that I might want to start taking Luvox because I'd heard that it was more geared towards helping with Social Anxiety than the others and here was his response:
"Who told you that? No, all SSRIs are pretty much the same, none of them help any more with anxiety than any others".
I said that my therapist had heard this and that another therapist in my family said the same of Lexapro, that it can help more with anxiety than some other SSRIs that might be better for depression or whatever and he just goes:
"Nope, that's not true"
I said, "well, why take any SSRI instead of any other at all?"
He just shrugged his shoulders and said "there's really no reason, they all work equally".
Then I asked why he would even suggest I switch SSRIs from Prozac to Luvox if it's not going to make a difference"
Then he just kind of shrugged and said "well, it might..." but didn't give any reason.
I said "well, could the Prozac maybe have started to lose some effect over the years?"
He said "maybe".
This guy just fucking sits there and clearly doesn't give TWO SHITS about whether or not my anxiety will go away with any med he gives me.
He asks me "what I want to do" in terms of medication and I keep telling him that I don't know much about meds cause I'm no doctor but what does HE think might help?"
He suggests Buspar but I said it didn't work for me when I tried it years ago.
That's ALL he fucking suggests and just shrugs his shoulders.
He was going to put me on the Lexapro WITHOUT taking me off Prozac till I told him I was worried of Serotonin Syndrome and then he decided to take me off Prozac....just basically as a fucking afterthought. He said he'd "monitor me while on two SSRIs so I didn't get SS" but then I said "well how will it help that you are "monitoring me" if I suddenly get really sick with SS?" He says "well it would happen gradually not at once like a heart attack" but never mind that I recently read of a case of Serotonin Syndrome that came on suddenly and was very crippling.
I wanted Klonopin but he refuses to prescribe any benozodiazapene because the hospital he works at is against that.
However, he'll only tell me what he WON'T give me but offers next to ZERO advice on why I should take any medication over any other medication.
I ask about Beta Blockers and he says "no that won't work for your kind of anxiety".
I tell him Klonopin worked for me and he says "no, Klonopin doesn't work on that kind of anxiety, only drugs that effect Serotonin work for your kind of problems"...
I wanted to fucking yell at him like "so I was just IMAGINING the VAST relief I got from Klonopin for ELEVEN fucking years?!?!"
Long story short, any time I ask him what medications he suggest he shrugs his shoulders, might throw a name or two out there and I ask if any are better for my kind of anxiety and he just keeps saying "No, they are all the same".
Then I'm getting really frustrated because I want him to MAKE ME BELIEVE that there's some hope that putting me on a new med might help me...
But no...he is pretty much unable to make me feel hopeful because it's CLEAR he doesn't give TWO SHITS about helping me.
He has NO opinion on whether or not switching to Luvox or Lexapro would be a better choice because he says they are just the same.
Then he gets slightly annoyed and tells me "your time is up so have you decided what you want?"
THE FUCKING NERVE of this guy!!!
So he writes me a prescription for Luvox and I walk out.
Please tell me this guy is WRONG and that some SSRIs work better for anxiety and social anxiety than others!
I want to believe that there was SOME reason I just switched SSRIs and doesn't anyone else hate how little some of these docs care?!?!
Shouldn't a psychiatrist really WANT to help his/her patients and consider their unique problems and really put some thought into which meds might work better than others rather than just shrug their shoulders and ask me what I WANT as a patient without giving me any real info on what might help me??!!
I had to switch to him recently after I was forcibly taken off of my Klonopin (which I wish I could have back).
So since I got off the Klonopin my social anxiety has returned and the Prozac I've been on for years is no longer sufficient to take care of the problem.
My therapist, who is pretty nice, suggested I try Luvox because he heard that it's better for Social Anxiety than some other SSRIs and I looked it up on WebMd and it said this was true and as I looked at other SSRIs descriptions it said that some were geared more towards helping with anxiety and others depression etc.
However, today I saw my psychiatrist and told him that I might want to start taking Luvox because I'd heard that it was more geared towards helping with Social Anxiety than the others and here was his response:
"Who told you that? No, all SSRIs are pretty much the same, none of them help any more with anxiety than any others".
I said that my therapist had heard this and that another therapist in my family said the same of Lexapro, that it can help more with anxiety than some other SSRIs that might be better for depression or whatever and he just goes:
"Nope, that's not true"
I said, "well, why take any SSRI instead of any other at all?"
He just shrugged his shoulders and said "there's really no reason, they all work equally".
Then I asked why he would even suggest I switch SSRIs from Prozac to Luvox if it's not going to make a difference"
Then he just kind of shrugged and said "well, it might..." but didn't give any reason.
I said "well, could the Prozac maybe have started to lose some effect over the years?"
He said "maybe".
This guy just fucking sits there and clearly doesn't give TWO SHITS about whether or not my anxiety will go away with any med he gives me.
He asks me "what I want to do" in terms of medication and I keep telling him that I don't know much about meds cause I'm no doctor but what does HE think might help?"
He suggests Buspar but I said it didn't work for me when I tried it years ago.
That's ALL he fucking suggests and just shrugs his shoulders.
He was going to put me on the Lexapro WITHOUT taking me off Prozac till I told him I was worried of Serotonin Syndrome and then he decided to take me off Prozac....just basically as a fucking afterthought. He said he'd "monitor me while on two SSRIs so I didn't get SS" but then I said "well how will it help that you are "monitoring me" if I suddenly get really sick with SS?" He says "well it would happen gradually not at once like a heart attack" but never mind that I recently read of a case of Serotonin Syndrome that came on suddenly and was very crippling.
I wanted Klonopin but he refuses to prescribe any benozodiazapene because the hospital he works at is against that.
However, he'll only tell me what he WON'T give me but offers next to ZERO advice on why I should take any medication over any other medication.
I ask about Beta Blockers and he says "no that won't work for your kind of anxiety".
I tell him Klonopin worked for me and he says "no, Klonopin doesn't work on that kind of anxiety, only drugs that effect Serotonin work for your kind of problems"...
I wanted to fucking yell at him like "so I was just IMAGINING the VAST relief I got from Klonopin for ELEVEN fucking years?!?!"
Long story short, any time I ask him what medications he suggest he shrugs his shoulders, might throw a name or two out there and I ask if any are better for my kind of anxiety and he just keeps saying "No, they are all the same".
Then I'm getting really frustrated because I want him to MAKE ME BELIEVE that there's some hope that putting me on a new med might help me...
But no...he is pretty much unable to make me feel hopeful because it's CLEAR he doesn't give TWO SHITS about helping me.
He has NO opinion on whether or not switching to Luvox or Lexapro would be a better choice because he says they are just the same.
Then he gets slightly annoyed and tells me "your time is up so have you decided what you want?"
THE FUCKING NERVE of this guy!!!
So he writes me a prescription for Luvox and I walk out.
Please tell me this guy is WRONG and that some SSRIs work better for anxiety and social anxiety than others!
I want to believe that there was SOME reason I just switched SSRIs and doesn't anyone else hate how little some of these docs care?!?!
Shouldn't a psychiatrist really WANT to help his/her patients and consider their unique problems and really put some thought into which meds might work better than others rather than just shrug their shoulders and ask me what I WANT as a patient without giving me any real info on what might help me??!!
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