My girlfriend on drugs, help please

[OGSnaps]

okay so the situation

i have a girlfriend now, we really love each other. but she really really likes drugs. and i mean theres nothing weird about that, we all do. but like, she doesn't have control over what's bad and what's not, like, she doesn't care if it's meth, crack, coke, or whatever. and I know imma get hate for it, but that shit messes you up and I don't want her on hardcore drugs like that. Yeah, I smoke weed and drink myself, along with other shit, and I don't mind that she smokes cigarettes and weed and drinks, but I've seen too much destruction through meth, crack, and hard ass drugs like that. Shit, i've been around it my whole life. Some of my relatives have done dip their whole lives, and they have no fucking teeth. And she does dip from time to time. It worries me.


Now i'm not trying to be controlling, that's the last thing I want. I just care about her and I don't want her to overdose on something or get addicted. I really love and care about her, but she's vulnerable to just taking any kind of drugs at all and I don't want her to be hurt by it.


Anyway, I want to keep her away from hard drugs like meth/crack/coke/opioids and all that. I don't know what to do to help her without being a controlling asshole, you know, "my boyfriend wont let me do any of this shit" when really I just don't want to see her being another victim because she isn't careful with drugs.

Basically, I want to stop her from fucking herself up on drugs, but I don't want to be controlling. So I turned to the drug forum, bluelight.

Could someone help me out with this? Maybe give me some advice on it? Thanks

 

[PotatoMan]

Homeless ----> SLR

 

[SettingSun]

Unless she has the desire to stop or slow down, unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it.

 

[pofacedhoe]

you cant change anothers personality.

if she is going to keep taking these drugs there is fuck all you can do about it.

i'm less worried by the concept of a drug being hard and much more the frequency with which a partner uses it. meth 2 times a year in moderate amounts wouldn't be as bad as 2 times a month which will seriously impact on them and their mood and me as a result.

cocaine worries me less than a benzo addiction. because you can just decide to not take it and move on. benzo's shit all over the times you aren't taking them as well as making you stupid/reckless when you are on them

how often is she hitting the hard stims category?

 

[ChipTrippyFox]

She will eigther do it behind your back or resent you from keeping her away from drugs. I doubt there's anything you can do to convince her not to do drugs. She's already used to doing them, and she is used to you allowing her to (more or less) and a sudden change without her choice will just cause abrasion. Sorry, but the only thing you can really do at this point is tell her how you feel but I doubt you're going to get the reciprocation that you're hoping for