Okay so my boyfriend is married... to my girlfriend... We have been together a few months and everything seems to be working out so far... I love them both but I get scared that if one of them are ready to stop then what? I know it is weird but I am happy... We have sex seperately and together... I know if they would do it with me then who else are they with is what I have heard... Honestly how do you feel about it... Would you see it working ?
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My boyfriend is married...
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Pagey
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Are you a boy/girlfriend or just someone they have sex with?
llama112
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So they are married and in an open relationship / they are swingers? So just go with it until they don't want it anymore. But I don't think you're in a relationship with them ... more like "friends with benefits". At least that is what I'd imagine. Enjoy yourself but keep in mind that it is possible it can stop. You may want to look for your own relationship while you are sleeping with these two people, specifically someone who may be open to swinging as well.
AbsintheKittie
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It would really depend on weather it is more of a Swinger type situation where you are just their unicorn... or if you are in a Poly relationship with them..
If its Swinger and you are their unicorn.. No offence.. but at some point they will move on.. its just how that world works..
If its poly.. just have open communication with them BOTH of them all the time and you guys will be great.. It might last a while or forever.. just as if you were dating one person instead of two you really never know.. Let them know what you want and what you foresee down the road for all of you and have that conversation with them..
If its Swinger and you are their unicorn.. No offence.. but at some point they will move on.. its just how that world works..
If its poly.. just have open communication with them BOTH of them all the time and you guys will be great.. It might last a while or forever.. just as if you were dating one person instead of two you really never know.. Let them know what you want and what you foresee down the road for all of you and have that conversation with them..
We are all officially dating.. She calls me girlfriend as does he...
Thanks everyone... We are all dating officially... I guess we are in a Poly relationship... We are trying to decide on all of us rooming together so that makes me nervous... I am very open with them about alot of things but I guess I have not really sat down and talked to them about the what ifs of all of it... I guess that will come up on our next date.