my bf keeps spreading out the tip of my urethra during oral sex

[Unregistered1057]

And it gives me the creeps! It makes me feel like I am having a catheter inserted into my penis, which I hate, but he seems to love doing it. He says he also does this to his urethral opening.

Also, I am shy about letting him suck my dick because it is small, I am not used to it yet, and I'd rather j/o, but he says he loves to suck it when it's small too. So I guess I am a lucky man right now, but then he keeps laughing and saying, "It's so small!", during the act.

Ah, love is grand--I guess.

 

[Rogue Robot]

Anonymous -> SLR

 

[rant*N*rave]

You should tell him, not us.

 

[n3ophy7e]

Yeah, if you don't like it, tell him!

Or if you're not comfortable enough to tell him straight-out that you don't like it, tell him in a passive way, e.g. when he's just sucking normally, tell him how much you like that, and if he does the urethra-spreading thing again, just say something like "No no, I like it better when you do that" (whatever he was doing before).

Or something to that effect

Communication is the key!!!

 

[beamers]

Get him a sounding kit (google it), it sounds like it will be right up his alley.

 

[drugfukkdrockstar]

but then he keeps laughing and saying, "It's so small!", during the act.

Ah, love is grand--I guess.

really? what a charming thing to say! 8)

like what has been said already - communicate to him what's on your mind. if he is doing something you don't like, tell him! if he is making you feel uncomfortable, tell him! if you don't speak up people will walk all over you.

 

[TheGreenManalishi]

"Its so Small" im sorry but i there is no way i'd go with someone who is so uncaring as to say that.

If any woman i had ever slept with said that i would prolly finish the "session" there and then.

 

[PriestTheyCalledHim]

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[LilbabiC]

It sounds as if he might get off on putting you down. If you aren't comfortable just tell him so.

 

[nuttynutskin]

"Its so Small" im sorry but i there is no way i'd go with someone who is so uncaring as to say that.

If any woman i had ever slept with said that i would prolly finish the "session" there and then.

No doubt... I only had one woman ever comment on the size of my dick and that immediately made me lose all respect for her. I'm fairly average really but it turned out she was just into BBC.