might as well be a virgin?

[britishguy666]

slr please.

i am male. first had sex at 18 with my SO at the time. we had sex a total of three or four times. that was over five years ago. i have not been with a girl since other than a couple of blowjobs. am i in the same boat as a virgin now? my skills in bed are more than likely poor since i have not been laid in many years and i cannot even remember what it felt like. for all intents and purposes, am i a virgin?

(noodle please do not close this thread. you seem be the only slr mod who derives pleasure in doing so. this is a serious concern of mine and not an attempt at humour.)

 

[amapola]

Guys can hardly be virgin at all nevermind after having had sex before. Just be triple C: carefree, confident, creative. You'll be fine.

anon >>> SLR

 

[ozchems]

Nah mate just be confident, positivity is the key!

 

[Noodle]

No. You are not a virgin.

 

[llama112]

No. You are not a virgin.

You have had sex before. Virgins are people who have not had sex before. Therefore, you are not a virgin.
I'm not sure what you want to get from this poll. There isn't even a "yes" or "no" option. :s

 

[wizekrak]

you're just rusty. Dust off the old penis and have at it.

 

[Noodle]

I think the OP knows they are not a virgin. They might be wanting to know if their lack of experience might as well make them a virgin.

I'm ready to have a go at the poll, as is....might as well!

 

[_a_A_C_c_]

vir·gin (vûrjn)
n.
1. A person who has not experienced sexual intercourse.
2. A chaste or unmarried woman; a maiden.
3. An unmarried woman who has taken religious vows of chastity.

you are male. that eliminates 2. and 3. you had sex, that eliminates 1. so no, you are not a virgin.

 

[JB]

Sex is a pretty natural act. My first gf didn't even realise I was a virgin the first time we had sex as I seemed so experienced.

I've been through a pretty dry spell myself recently overcoming my addiction problems but I'm sure I could pull it out of the bag if need be.

Just follow your feelings, your body and push your fears to the back of your mind and all will go well. Just make sure you cum once during foreplay once before you move to sex so you don't bust your nut within seconds. Ha ha.

 

[Lysis]

This is one of the few times I'd suggest a hooker/escort.

 

[neoblazing]

if your that worried man use hookers to practice, or join a adult site and just have some fun and learn new things man plenty you can do don't be so quick to think your no good I only had 5 sexual encounters before I met my wife all I did was read books and I get complements 95% of the time. plently of sources of experience and knowledge so just get out there and enjoy life.

 

[_mistresspoppy_]

You be surprised how many girls who are turned on by an inexperienced guy. You are definitely not a virgin, since you've had sex. Even if it's been awhile, it's a natural act, and you're not going to "forget" how. Just in case:
1- get an erection
2- penetrate your orifice of choice, the vagina is recommended for beginners, or try anal if you're feeling adventurous, but that's for a later lesson
3- hump In varied speeds, slow, fast, gently, rough, depending on your or your partners preference
4- ejaculate.
The time between steps 3-4 may vary depending on your experience
Good luck and happy humping!

 

[Jblazingphoenix100]

get fucking!!

 

[Schrei]

I feel like that too when I havent had sex for a long time. But when I finally do Im surprised that I havent lost my good talent.
But now Im back to feeling like a virgin again too.
To answer your question: No, youll still be at the same level as the last time you had sex

 

[aanallein]

bighooter?

 

[GoddessLSD-XTC]

sex is over rated, waste of time, dangerous, addicting . . . ur better off without it

 

[RareForm]

for all intents and purposes, no, you are not a virgin. for whatever your reasons, you are abstinent.

 

[Psychonauticunt]

Skills in sex come quickly with practice, and for them to translate into good sex, you usually need to spend some time (having sex) with that particular person before you find what makes each other tick.
For all intents and purposes, you are not a virgin. I found I was a whole lot less of a virgin by the fourth time than the first time.
I was, however, completely lacking in any sort of stamina for the first good 10 times or so, so I guess if I'd have slept with multiple women some of them may have suspected I was still a virgin on the 10th go. :D

 

[gr33n3y3z]

L O Fucking L


/thread please

 

[95Land]

Of all the old threads to pull up, why this one??? Ha.