somethingswrong
Greenlighter
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Not sure if this belongs here or in P&S. It's a philosophical crisis that's pushing me over the edge, when I'm already hanging onto the edge with one hand.
In the 23 years of my life, I've never used any hard drugs. I've only done and wanted to do psychedelics, I've only done dxm, dramamine, ketamine, 5-meo-dmt, 2t72 (or something like that) in all my life yet and don't have any further craving for the release psychedelics give, although I still want to experience proper hallucinogenics. Anyway, I overdid every one of the above drugs, for long periods of my life, for months and months (and constant on and off hashish smoking) during the past 4 or 5 years. I was suicidal and depressed since a long time before trying any drugs. I don't remember my childhood very well, what I do remember are good memories, of an intense, emotional, hazy and adventurous childhood. Don't know if there was any traumatic event then.
3 years ago I went into rehab for a month for too much IM ketamine and a suicide attempt in which I was rescued. Got on risperdal, lithium and tryptanol. Was on them for 2 years almost, when I successfully tapered off all of them and quit and stopped seeing my doctor. The time on meds I remember as being calm and content times, and a lack of something essential. I don't know what that was that I felt was missing, but I decided that meds were causing me to feel that huge lack and I quit them. I started smoking hashish a whole lot more often then before, daily now for more then a year.
I've always been confused about love and relations. I can't have any firm stable conceptions about them, I can't convince myself that I really am in touch with other people and vice versa, and that it's not just all a case of mutual misunderstanding with me and everyone else and I cannot feel that I know anyone, or that anyone knows me, at a level that matters. It all feels too superficial almost all the time. I've never been in a 'romantic' relation with any girl. I used to yearn for that. I've had strong crushes, which die down and I don't regret them. There's only been this one girl that's not left my head all these years, in a way which drives me insane. We've been friends almost 5 or 6 years. I confessed I loved her twice, over a period of a year. She didn't feel the same way for me. I didn't resent anything for that, she loves me unconditionally, that's something I know for a fact, but was honest and said she didn't feel that way for me. I didn't ever mention it again and honestly, I didn't get upset or anything over it but she seems to have become a lot more distant and reserved with me and that tears me up. I've never held any strong ideas about what 'love' is, just that its something I really want, and that I can't be sure what the 'man-woman' love is and that I shouldn't ever delude myself about it. i think I'm just obsessed over her, when she enters my mind that is.
When I think about her, or hear something about her, my mind sometimes spirals into a negative train of thought, bad emotional rollercoaster, and sometimes when its gotten combined with other less emotionally painful things going on in my life, have led to psychotic breaks (relatively mild ones though, compared to a few years ago). I want to get over her, move on, let in other people, let in anyone! and feel connection, feel understood and feel that I understand someone else. Love, friendship, family, I want to feel those connections but I can't for some reason. This makes me feel unstable almost aaaallll the time and although I 'function' bearably in social settings and practical stuff such as work and studies, there's always something missing! always! something thats off, that's wrong.
anyway, sorry for the disorganised and melodramatic nature of this post. I've been feeling like being in hell, for a long long time now. and life just gets narrower and narrower. I don't know how long I can hold on before snapping for good.
I want to ask, will getting on psychiatric meds take away my craving for some spiritual and emotional fulfillment (I'm an agnostic, I can't believe anything blindly no matter how much I would want to believe something). Basically, I'm afraid of becoming a zombie if I get on meds. Will I still have that intensity? Will the right combination of meds help avoid becoming a zombie? Why don't I feel love (I'm meaning love in a very general way here). Why doesn't anything, feel comfortable and secure anymore? people, ideas, things, events, adventures, they all fade into a foggy uncertain grey area, where nothing is certain. I want to stop feeling that, I want to feel certain about something worthwhile.
In the 23 years of my life, I've never used any hard drugs. I've only done and wanted to do psychedelics, I've only done dxm, dramamine, ketamine, 5-meo-dmt, 2t72 (or something like that) in all my life yet and don't have any further craving for the release psychedelics give, although I still want to experience proper hallucinogenics. Anyway, I overdid every one of the above drugs, for long periods of my life, for months and months (and constant on and off hashish smoking) during the past 4 or 5 years. I was suicidal and depressed since a long time before trying any drugs. I don't remember my childhood very well, what I do remember are good memories, of an intense, emotional, hazy and adventurous childhood. Don't know if there was any traumatic event then.
3 years ago I went into rehab for a month for too much IM ketamine and a suicide attempt in which I was rescued. Got on risperdal, lithium and tryptanol. Was on them for 2 years almost, when I successfully tapered off all of them and quit and stopped seeing my doctor. The time on meds I remember as being calm and content times, and a lack of something essential. I don't know what that was that I felt was missing, but I decided that meds were causing me to feel that huge lack and I quit them. I started smoking hashish a whole lot more often then before, daily now for more then a year.
I've always been confused about love and relations. I can't have any firm stable conceptions about them, I can't convince myself that I really am in touch with other people and vice versa, and that it's not just all a case of mutual misunderstanding with me and everyone else and I cannot feel that I know anyone, or that anyone knows me, at a level that matters. It all feels too superficial almost all the time. I've never been in a 'romantic' relation with any girl. I used to yearn for that. I've had strong crushes, which die down and I don't regret them. There's only been this one girl that's not left my head all these years, in a way which drives me insane. We've been friends almost 5 or 6 years. I confessed I loved her twice, over a period of a year. She didn't feel the same way for me. I didn't resent anything for that, she loves me unconditionally, that's something I know for a fact, but was honest and said she didn't feel that way for me. I didn't ever mention it again and honestly, I didn't get upset or anything over it but she seems to have become a lot more distant and reserved with me and that tears me up. I've never held any strong ideas about what 'love' is, just that its something I really want, and that I can't be sure what the 'man-woman' love is and that I shouldn't ever delude myself about it. i think I'm just obsessed over her, when she enters my mind that is.
When I think about her, or hear something about her, my mind sometimes spirals into a negative train of thought, bad emotional rollercoaster, and sometimes when its gotten combined with other less emotionally painful things going on in my life, have led to psychotic breaks (relatively mild ones though, compared to a few years ago). I want to get over her, move on, let in other people, let in anyone! and feel connection, feel understood and feel that I understand someone else. Love, friendship, family, I want to feel those connections but I can't for some reason. This makes me feel unstable almost aaaallll the time and although I 'function' bearably in social settings and practical stuff such as work and studies, there's always something missing! always! something thats off, that's wrong.
anyway, sorry for the disorganised and melodramatic nature of this post. I've been feeling like being in hell, for a long long time now. and life just gets narrower and narrower. I don't know how long I can hold on before snapping for good.
I want to ask, will getting on psychiatric meds take away my craving for some spiritual and emotional fulfillment (I'm an agnostic, I can't believe anything blindly no matter how much I would want to believe something). Basically, I'm afraid of becoming a zombie if I get on meds. Will I still have that intensity? Will the right combination of meds help avoid becoming a zombie? Why don't I feel love (I'm meaning love in a very general way here). Why doesn't anything, feel comfortable and secure anymore? people, ideas, things, events, adventures, they all fade into a foggy uncertain grey area, where nothing is certain. I want to stop feeling that, I want to feel certain about something worthwhile.
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