Low self esteem after being dumped

[sebation13901]

So I "dated" a married woman for 4 years and right before divorce was final she dumped me. Now I can't seem to even hit on women and it's been a few years. I use hook up every weekend at the clubs and and never ever had a problem with women. Seems like everything I do I keep telling myself excuses why a woman wouldn't date me. I want to keep it short here but if you want to message me I will be glad to give you more detail. I appreciate any adivce you can give.

 

[Tude]

If you keep telling yourself women won't date you, they won't.

 

[llama112]

If you keep telling yourself women won't date you, they won't.

There you go

Do you have any friends? Go out to clubs with them. Go out and have fun. If it ends up in picking up a woman, then awesome. If not, at least you had a good night with friends!

 

[B1tO'RoughJack]

Just work on yourself.

WOrk on your passion in life, work on having fun with the lads, work on keeping yourself fit, and occupied.

Then women will start coming into your life, the right way. Your time of acting like a hunter is obviously over.

 

[opium]

the more you look the less likely you are going to find.

the best relationships come by surprise

 

[parachuteantics]

Go out to focus on you. When you focus on you and your well-being and fun - things come more naturally. People are attracted to confidence and when you are soley out for one purpose, you will definelty not find it like that. Woman can pick up on that type of stuff and when you become the "good time," people will want to get know you.