Respect4all
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Feb 8, 2015
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- 13
Hi,
I'm a 19 years old boy and I generally feel bad. I don't want to live the way I'm supposed to live.
People see me as a nice guy because I never shout or I simply don't get angry and I always know how to make people laugh and feel better. But deep inside I feel really bad 75 % of the day. No one knows I feel bad because they always see me smile.
The thing that makes me feel bad the most is my feelings for a girl. She's in love with me too but I know for 100% sure things will not work between us, trust me on that...
I really want to let her go but I don't know how to... I don't want to hurt her, and avoiding her is not possible in my situation. I can't talk to her about my feelings because she's not reasonable. I think about her all day, I can't stop hoping she'll text me or whatever.
Besides that my parents hurt each other and that hurts me as well. My stepmother is drunk at this point, she's shouting at the television all by herself (not joking). Sometimes I want to run away but I can't... I don't want to hurt my dad and I don't have anywhere else to go...
Another problem is that I always get dissapointed, for example... I plan on going out with a girl. Days and days before the date I start imagining it in best case scenario. Nothing ever go's the way I want it to go...
I always kept myself strong but lately, since the girl troubles I lost it... I can't do this anymore...
The good in my life isn't worth the bad anymore, and it sucks.
Actually I'm looking for a way to shut all my emotions of, I really want to stop caring and focus on more important things.
I know you'll all think turning every emotion off is not a better way to live my life but the way I'm feeling lately is killing me.
If any of you know a way or a guide to turn it all off, PLEASE, tell me!
If any of you have a guide or tips or anything to control my feelings, PLEASE, tell me!
I'm a 19 years old boy and I generally feel bad. I don't want to live the way I'm supposed to live.
People see me as a nice guy because I never shout or I simply don't get angry and I always know how to make people laugh and feel better. But deep inside I feel really bad 75 % of the day. No one knows I feel bad because they always see me smile.
The thing that makes me feel bad the most is my feelings for a girl. She's in love with me too but I know for 100% sure things will not work between us, trust me on that...
I really want to let her go but I don't know how to... I don't want to hurt her, and avoiding her is not possible in my situation. I can't talk to her about my feelings because she's not reasonable. I think about her all day, I can't stop hoping she'll text me or whatever.
Besides that my parents hurt each other and that hurts me as well. My stepmother is drunk at this point, she's shouting at the television all by herself (not joking). Sometimes I want to run away but I can't... I don't want to hurt my dad and I don't have anywhere else to go...
Another problem is that I always get dissapointed, for example... I plan on going out with a girl. Days and days before the date I start imagining it in best case scenario. Nothing ever go's the way I want it to go...
I always kept myself strong but lately, since the girl troubles I lost it... I can't do this anymore...
The good in my life isn't worth the bad anymore, and it sucks.
Actually I'm looking for a way to shut all my emotions of, I really want to stop caring and focus on more important things.
I know you'll all think turning every emotion off is not a better way to live my life but the way I'm feeling lately is killing me.
If any of you know a way or a guide to turn it all off, PLEASE, tell me!
If any of you have a guide or tips or anything to control my feelings, PLEASE, tell me!
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