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Kegels and vaginal tightness.

purpleprincess

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So it's been over two years since I've last had sex and I'm feeling really self conscious about my vagina. Not "woe is me, I'm down in dumps", but enough for me to make a thread about it. The thing is that I've been mostly sitting around on my ass for the past two years and my vagina has lost some tone. When I told my friend that my vagina was tighter when I was having intercourse regularly, she just laughed at me. I had to pull up some stuff on the internet and show her that we have a muscle in between our legs that we can work out like any other. Anyway, I'm doing kegels but I'm just not getting the results I want. On another note, I've lined up a partner and he's expecting me to be school girl tight(fuck him) because I haven't been active for so long. I told him to just be grateful that I'm considering spreading my legs for him.

Ever experience something similar after not having sex for a while?
Anybody use those yoni eggs/ben wa balls? Do they work?

I want to have sex, but not while I'm feeling this self conscious.
 
Omg, get over it. You're so paranoid! Relax.... geez.

Do the kegels and the balls if it makes you feel better. Go have sex with that guy and guarantee, he'll be like, you have a super tight pussy--sex was best I ever had. As long as you stop sending him studies about loose pussy and how loose your pussy feels. It's almost like a skinny girl that keeps talking about how fat her tummy gets after she eats and asks you to constantly look at it and touch it.
 
or if you haven't had a baby recently. if he complains about you being loose then you have every right to complain about his small dick. nuff said?
 
You guys are hilarious. I feel like a dweeb now. I can comfortably fit two fingers in. Three is a no go. I want to go back down to one, but I'm starting to feel a bit silly. Ha.
 
I can comfortably fit two fingers in. Three is a no go. I want to go back down to one, but I'm starting to feel a bit silly. Ha.

Unless the dude as a super teeny penis I would assume that a vagina that can fit only one finger in at a time would be uncomfortable with a penis in it.
 
What about when you tense up involuntarily and it's torture even to get a finger in (like you can). Is there a term for this?
 
You guys are hilarious. I feel like a dweeb now. I can comfortably fit two fingers in. Three is a no go. I want to go back down to one, but I'm starting to feel a bit silly. Ha.

seems like your too tight. if you want help stretching that vag out, I could prolly help
 
I had it during my benzo withdrawal. Just pushing the tip of my index finger in left me feeling like a virgin who'd been brutally raped by someone 3 times my size.
 
^ Yeah, it's called "not horny".

Lmfao very true ?.

@op I guarantee its not loose. Like another poster said just dont focus on it and have sex. Telling a guy repeatedly that you're too loose and explaining why is only gonna be a turn off lol. Just have sex and have fun. If you think you need to have more sex to make you feel tighter than I guess go do it lol. If his cock is really so small its thinner than two fingers, that's his problem not yourse haha :3
 
What you need to do is have a protein shake after you kegel exercises.
That will help feed, and rebuild the muscle to make it stronger.

You're welcome
 
Tfw your girl can tighten her vagine while having your cock balls deep

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