Is NSA sex really out there?

[JSunday]

Hi all,

I'm a reasonably good looking guy, trying to find NSA sex on the internet. Has anyone ever had any success with this?
I get it, "go out" "find a girl" etc etc... but the arranging to meet online thing does it for me.

If you've had success, tell me where, and how!

Thanks

 

[MilzyWilzy]

I'm assuming you mean no strings attached sex?

It is out there. Get yourself smartened up and head on out for a night out and have some fun dude.

Don't bother with the online thing, get out, socialise, have fun and get safely laid.

 

[bakeryrogercow]

Yes, but like milzywilzy said don't do it online. Go to a bar. You have, have, have to talk to women. Its intimidating at first, but so many other guys are nervous too, that just by talking to a girl, buying her a drink and maintaining eye contact, you already blew past 75% of the men in a bar. Once guys start getting drunk (and sloppy) then they approach women, but they never seem genuine. Practice talking to girls before you're sloppy, buy her a drink, look in her eyes, listen and talk. Even if its NSA sex, women need an emotional connection to have sex, they just don't bone at the flip of a coin. Practice, Practice, Practice! If you can get that far, closing is in my opinion the hardest part. Usually I'll say something like, "want to go someplace quieter where we can talk more?"

If its much more drunk / loud / casual with her, you can just say, "want to get out of here?" If she says yes to either question, she at the least wants to hook up with you, at best bone you. Don't get nervous at that point, just keep thinking to yourself "im in control of this situation, she talked to me all night and is going home with me"

 

[MilzyWilzy]

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yes, but like milzywilzy said don't do it online. Go to a bar. You have, have, have to talk to women. Its intimidating at first, but so many other guys are nervous too, that just by talking to a girl, buying her a drink and maintaining eye contact, you already blew past 75% of the men in a bar. Once guys start getting drunk (and sloppy) then they approach women, but they never seem genuine. Practice talking to girls before you're sloppy, buy her a drink, look in her eyes, listen and talk. Even if its nsa sex, women need an emotional connection to have sex, they just don't bone at the flip of a coin. Practice, practice, practice! If you can get that far, closing is in my opinion the hardest part. Usually i'll say something like, "want to go someplace quieter where we can talk more?"

if its much more drunk / loud / casual with her, you can just say, "want to get out of here?" if she says yes to either question, she at the least wants to hook up with you, at best bone you. Don't get nervous at that point, just keep thinking to yourself "im in control of this situation, she talked to me all night and is going home with me"

 

[pofacedhoe]

op yes

 

[Bearlove]

Hi all,

I'm a reasonably good looking guy, trying to find NSA sex on the internet. Has anyone ever had any success with this?
I get it, "go out" "find a girl" etc etc... but the arranging to meet online thing does it for me.

If you've had success, tell me where, and how!

Thanks

NSA is a real thing :D. It really depends on what your looking for and where your looking - several apps about to suit pretty much most tastes. I would say the dedicated apps are a bit safer than just trawling the likes of Craigslist etc.

 

[Claudia Sass]

Lady here!

It's out there. I use a phone app when I feel the need for a warm body.

Things that generally make me "swipe left"

Awful pickup lines
Dick pics (sorry boys, they are not attractive things to look at)
Over-confidence
Desperation

If a guy looks attractive, has a witty profile and can hold a conversation for 10 mins, I'm usually sold.

 

[Bearlove]

Lady here!

It's out there. I use a phone app when I feel the need for a warm body.

Things that generally make me "swipe left"

Awful pickup lines
Dick pics (sorry boys, they are not attractive things to look at)
Over-confidence
Desperation

If a guy looks attractive, has a witty profile and can hold a conversation for 10 mins, I'm usually sold.

Do people still use pickup lines on apps? I don't mind dick pics as long as there are not the opening message - 'look I have a cock'!

I hate 'clean' being mentioned in a profile - when used on HIV/Aids or Drug use

 

[Claudia Sass]

Do people still use pickup lines on apps? I don't mind dick pics as long as there are not the opening message - 'look I have a cock'!

You would be surprised at how many men fall prey to that thin line between "awsome ice-breaker" and "you didn't really just type that, right?" ?

 

[Bearlove]

You would be surprised at how many men fall prey to that thin line between "awsome ice-breaker" and "you didn't really just type that, right?" ��

haha - so educate us, what do you think is a great ice breaker? I've used a lot of apps, sites for sex, fun etc - it saves so much time :D

 

[Claudia Sass]

haha - so educate us, what do you think is a great ice breaker? I've used a lot of apps, sites for sex, fun etc - it saves so much time :D

Bear with me here. I could be up all night with examples ?

Generally anything pushy and selfish is a No in my books. Sex is a two way street and if you want me to drive to you, suck your cock and bid you good day, I'm not the girl for you.

Alternatively, should you acknowledge that I too enjoy being played with, then we got a date. Be right there after I shower.

If I've heard the pickup line before, possibly at my primary school disco, then i'm gonna roll my eyes and decline to reply.

If it's original, quirky and makes me smile, you have my attention.

"Wanna come over, watch GoT then get it on like the lannisters?" "Definitely, BRT"

Physical attraction is important to me when it comes to NSA. If your profile picture is of your car, dog or a cartoon character, then nope.

If your profile is a incoherent scrabble-bag of words, then nope.

 

[Bearlove]

Alternatively, should you acknowledge that I too enjoy being played with, then we got a date. Be right there after I shower..

It's funny how many people forget that simple thing of being washed - yeah fucking with a hot sweaty person is great fun (I love it) but I don't really want to dirty my Kylie bedding

with your stink.

If your really busy then quickly wash your cock n balls in the sink :D

 

[Claudia Sass]

Dig the bedding! It's beautiful!!

Usually they get the hint about cleanliness.

"Mind if I have a quick shower when I get to yours? It's been a long day. You're welcome to join me"

"I wanna wash my hair before I head over, so will be there in XYZ to give you time to do whatever you gotta do"

 

[ezrielle]

Have you ever thought of trying a swinger club? The do occasionally allow some single guys, and everyone there is here for sex

 

[psychedelicsoul]

Yes... The NSA is watching you have sex. Every time.

 

[Kid Amine]

Lady here!

If a guy looks attractive, has a witty profile and can hold a conversation for 10 mins, I'm usually sold.

I think I wrote this a week ago, but again: I need to move to AUS. lol

Have a few female friends on FB from AUS, and the shit i hear about men down there... the 'hold a conversation for 10 minutes' part is probably the hardest one, yes? :D

AUS accent is the hottest in the world. a close second would be true South Carolina accent (not south, not appalachian, south carolina only). The voice just melts this man.

 

[Claudia Sass]

For us Aussie girls, it's usually the Irish that makes us wet ><

No idea why. It just DOES THINGS to us.

How is the Wahoo hunting going?

Aussies are pretty damn friendly, if you can get over our blunt sense of humour. We are generally more laid-back then other countries, and will be the first to try anything that pushes us out of our comfort zone. Simple thrills and great company is where it's at.

For that reason, Aussies generally pickup easily when overseas, but visiting tourists can find it hard to get a word in to impress.

Shyness is unattractive here. It hints at self-doubt or can come across as snobbish. Big smiles, hearty laughs and fast-thinking jokes will get you far

 

[Mysterie]

well, it depends on what circles you hang out with in regards to shyness being unattractive, its a pretty subjective point. i can agree that most modern western cultures reward extroversion and overt confidence.

 

[Erikmen]

I believe you could do both. But do try to meet people socially. It does not matter where.

It could be a blind date, or in one those bar/restaurants that you order your food and eat alone but at the same time together with other people looking for the same goals. Don't create expectations, just go. Have a nice time alone if it does not work.

At some point it's always going to be someone who likes you the way you are. Some girls like good listeners. And shyness works in a lot of relations. Whether you are good looking or not, you've gotta try. That's my suggestion. Try and you'll see if it suits you after few times.

 

[Claudia Sass]

well, it depends on what circles you hang out with in regards to shyness being unattractive, its a pretty subjective point. i can agree that most modern western cultures reward extroversion and overt confidence.

Too true. It's all a bit subjective.

My experience with shyness being a negative trait here comes from primary, high school and now at university. Shy kids generally had/have much smaller cliques then the more outgoing ones. They go to less parties and school/social events. They seem to vanish into thin air after classes. They exist when they need to, but quickly forgotten about when not present, and easy to ignore when they are. I assume it's harder to stand out from the pack when you don't have a voice, you cannot make eye contact, and your body language looks more defeated then welcoming.

I fully respect that on their side of the fence, they feel the more outgoing ones come across as overly-opinionated and over-confident, probably to the point of obnoxious, rude and selfish.

Personalities are confusing.