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Is it wrong to ask for money back if your dealer loses the product?

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I just need some help to know if I fucked up or he did (or both). Last night me and my friend stayed up all night working on a school project due tmrw. He had taken a bunch of kpins and I was rolling on molly (lasted an hour or so, don't think it was real). Anyways, we got back to his apartment and I asked if I could buy a half gram of bud so I could sleep. It's important to mention that he was fucked up, out of it, and barely responding when we tried to get him up (he took a molly, prolly 10mg of klonopin, and had been awake for about 4 days).

Barely coherent, he gives me a sack which looked like a half g. I paid him the money and I then realized I left my keys at the library and needed to get them. He said he would come with and roll a j in the car. Pretty much, he was nodding the whole time and somehow lost the ground up bud in the car. His car was dirty and there wasn't a chance finding the bud at 4am so I said fuck it. I was planning on smoking it myself that night but thought it would be good to smoke him out. I asked if I could get my money back for next time and he got pissed, saying that it wasn't his fault and that "you just don't do that". He threw the money at me and went inside his apartment. I tried to explain to him why should i pay for something he lost but he wasn't hearing it.

I'm hoping that he acted like a bitch because of the drugs and sleep deprivation. Was I wrong for asking for my money back? I've known him since we were kids so I don't want to ruin the relationship but he got close to crossing the line with me
 
I just need some help to know if I fucked up or he did (or both). Last night me and my friend stayed up all night working on a school project due tmrw. He had taken a bunch of kpins and I was rolling on molly (lasted an hour or so, don't think it was real). Anyways, we got back to his apartment and I asked if I could buy a half gram of bud so I could sleep. It's important to mention that he was fucked up, out of it, and barely responding when we tried to get him up (he took a molly, prolly 10mg of klonopin, and had been awake for about 4 days).

Barely coherent, he gives me a sack which looked like a half g. I paid him the money and I then realized I left my keys at the library and needed to get them. He said he would come with and roll a j in the car. Pretty much, he was nodding the whole time and somehow lost the ground up bud in the car. His car was dirty and there wasn't a chance finding the bud at 4am so I said fuck it. I was planning on smoking it myself that night but thought it would be good to smoke him out. I asked if I could get my money back for next time and he got pissed, saying that it wasn't his fault and that "you just don't do that". He threw the money at me and went inside his apartment. I tried to explain to him why should i pay for something he lost but he wasn't hearing it.

I'm hoping that he acted like a bitch because of the drugs and sleep deprivation. Was I wrong for asking for my money back? I've known him since we were kids so I don't want to ruin the relationship but he got close to crossing the line with me
 
How much money can a half gram be worth?

Blow it off, not worth losing the friendship, and a good dealer.
 
I get that and I tried to give the money back but he wasn't accepting it. The only reason I asked was because I paid for something and didn't get it(plus money is real tight right now).

Its like giving your dealer money to pick up something for you. When he comes back he says "sorry man I couldn't get it but I'll keep your money anyways"
 
No point trying to reason with a man on benzos. You should have said nothing until he was sober, then got pissed. But half a g of weed? Id make friends again get a little more weed and smoke it with him to show theres no hard feelings.
 
I understand the principal of it. Money is tight for you and some dumb fuck loses what little you bought for yourself.He is a friend tho so smoke him up to show no hard feelings and forget about it. Best wishes.
 
^ I'm sure he was just acting that way due to sleep deprivation and being under the influence. How can it be wrong of you to want your money back if you never got the product? If you pay for a product you should get it, so therefore shouldn't have to pay for it if you don't get it. I don't see how this is a difficult concept to comprehend.

"You just don't do that." Yea, you just don't lose someones drugs and then expect them to pay for them. If he were to hand it to you and you collectively drop it then I can see splitting the price or something, but this seemed to have been all his fault.
 
I wouldnt have asked for it back. Shit, half gram aint worth a life long friendship. Get some bud, roll a fatty, smoke with him, it should all be good. Just part of the game imo.
 
He's a fucking scum.
You guys are giving way to much credit. He is a dealer, meaning he is making MONEY off you. He should have offered to pay you back right away if he lost the bud. This isn't even a question.
I can see how people get bossy and stuff on benzos but still....
 
He may have known he fucked up and his anger was more with himself.

I would have asked instead, perhaps later when he was sober, if he might hook you up with some more... Since he lost it. Be nice about it.
 
It sounds to me like kind of a screwed up, silly sort of situation... first, he doesn't sound like a very legitimate dealer, being that he's getting so screwed up. It's been my experience that legitimate, serious dealers simply do not get so screwed up on all different drugs -- maybe a little bit of weed, but rarely anything else or anything more. He's also a friend of yours, and it sounds to me like he handed you the bag, but then you handed it back to him so that he could roll the joint in his car? So, at one point you did have the bag... right? There are just all of these different, strange sort of elements going on here that contribute to this situation's being so sticky.

I don't know what I would do... but if he were a serious dealer, like, a legitimate, bonafide dealer making good money, then I might have asked for another bag or something; and I have a feeling that if he were truly a legitimate dealer, then he would have had no problem at all with tossing you another half gram and you wouldn't have had to even ask for it. But if he's just a friend who was sort of doing you a little favor by selling you a bit from his own stash, then I'm not sure you should have asked him for your money back or whatever. He gave it to you, you gave it back to him to roll a joint, it all got lost somehow in a drug-crazy shuffle, and that's sort of that. Does it suck? Yeah, but what did you learn? You learned to roll your own joints from now on rather than to trust your sloppy-ass friend in his sloppy-ass car.
 
Just realize now that if you ever spill his drugs, he is going to make you pay for them.


personally, I wouldn't really give a fuck. I'd be mad, maybe ask if he had another bowl or something but really if you have all those other drugs what does less than a gram of bud matter lol?
 
It's not unreasonable to expect him to pay you back considering he lost it before you smoked any of it. You shouldn't have even had to ask to be honest, he should've known it was his bad and just gave you the money back or given you a new bag. He put you in an awkward situation by not doing that... cos now you feel bad you had to ask for it back but if you hadn't you would've felt like he owed you... lose-lose IMO.
 
If you owed him money, even a small amount, would he be on your ass about it? If yes, than act accordingly If no, forget about it, I mean if he let's you slide on money sometimes then return the favor. Treat him the same way he treats you, whichever way that may be.
 
If I got the story right he did give you the weed. Then you gave your weed to someone who was barely conscious to roll a joint with. I think it is your fault because by what you say he was really fucked up. You should have known better.
 
Tryptamite said:
No point trying to reason with a man on benzos.
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Yep. Especially that much k-pin. I most likely would have waited and told him the next day.
He wouldn't have remembered. So, if he was a good friend he'd believe you and kick it back. If he wasn't he'd say that's bullshit and you'd be out.
Either way, you'd either get your money or .5 back or you'd learn a good lesson about your friend.
 
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