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I think that this is the right forum for such a discussion, and I'm going to try to be brief but without leaving out any important details:
Basically, I had everything going for me about two years ago. I was living in a beautiful apartment with a beautiful girl; I bought a car, and not just any car, but the car I really, really wanted; I was finishing up school, paying all of my bills on time; I had a good part-time job at my university doing some work for their development department; I took a trip to Paris just for the hell of it...
In other words, I really had my shit together. (I was, at this time, taking amphetamines, adderall, quite regularly to help me get all of these things done.) I thought that I'd quit taking them, and so I did, and I experienced all the terrible depression and withdrawal symptoms of kicking amphetamines which, I soon realized, were really more mental than physical. I felt stupid, incapable of performing even the simplest task. It sucked, but I knew that it had to be done. They say that when it rains, it pours. Well, at the same time I'm kicking amphetamines, I come down with a terrible, terrible case of mono. I mean, so bad that I had to go to the hospital; it was attacking my liver, and so my liver wasn't working correctly or something. It sucked. If you've ever kicked amphetamines, and if you've ever had a bad case of mono, well, imagine trying to put the two together.
So, needless to say, I was bed-ridden for nearly a month with my bills piling up. I got back to work, but it was tough because I came down with a real bad case of chronic fatigue syndrome. The depression that had come with kicking the amphetamines and might have gone away was now the depression that came with chronic fatigue syndrome. I never had a break. I was slipping up at school, missing classes, missing work.
I said that I was finishing up school, right? Well, eventually, I had to begin my student teaching, and this was the last thing I had to do before graduating. Now, anyone who has ever done student teaching knows that it's difficult to work part-time because of all your responsibilities to the program, so I worked minimal hours.
Well, student teaching didn't go as planned, and unfairly, I felt. (The only problem that my mentors had with me was my organization, and I felt that they had it out for me from the very beginning.) I came to the realization that, well, I likely wouldn't pass student teaching... even after all I had put into it. (They flat-out told me I would probably not pass.)
So, having all these bills to pay, exhausted, working minimal hours, and looking like I wouldn't pass student teaching... I quit, quit everything. I walked away from student teaching, walked away from school, stopped paying my bills, got a couple part-time gigs, and even with that little bit of money coming in... well, I would just look at it and say, "fuck it! It's not even enough to pay the minimum payment on one of my credit cards." So, I found some way to piss that money away because it just didn't seem to matter anymore... and drugs fit the bill nicely.
I had been taking opiates pretty regularly, but I gave up taking everything, amphetamines, opiates, everything for student teaching. I wanted to do it entirely on my own without amphetamines or opiates or anything else... and it wasn't all that hard, really, because I loved teaching. Then, once teaching went to shit, I got back into drugs almost as though I had something to prove. I was really, really bitter.
And so now, here I am, still working two part-time jobs; my car needs an oil-change and I've been riding on a doughnut for the past month and a half; I haven't payed any of my bills, really; I spend all of my money on stupid shit, usually dope; and I just don't care. I don't feel depressed at all. I just don't care...
Everyone tells me, "Go back to school! Try student teaching again!" It's not that easy. I don't even have the money or the means to attempt student teaching again, not even if I really wanted to. I don't even feel motivated to try it again; nothing seems to matter to me. I feel like I really noticed that change in my attitude after the whole kicking-amphetamines-and-suffering-through-mono thing. It was like, I realized how quickly everything you have and everything you've worked for can be taken from you. Failing student teaching was just the icing on the cake, really, the cherry on top that all but proved it to be true.
What's wrong with me? Is it depression, even though I don't feel depressed? Is it just my new, apathetic attitude and outlook on life? What is it?
EDIT: So much for being brief. Sorry.
Basically, I had everything going for me about two years ago. I was living in a beautiful apartment with a beautiful girl; I bought a car, and not just any car, but the car I really, really wanted; I was finishing up school, paying all of my bills on time; I had a good part-time job at my university doing some work for their development department; I took a trip to Paris just for the hell of it...
In other words, I really had my shit together. (I was, at this time, taking amphetamines, adderall, quite regularly to help me get all of these things done.) I thought that I'd quit taking them, and so I did, and I experienced all the terrible depression and withdrawal symptoms of kicking amphetamines which, I soon realized, were really more mental than physical. I felt stupid, incapable of performing even the simplest task. It sucked, but I knew that it had to be done. They say that when it rains, it pours. Well, at the same time I'm kicking amphetamines, I come down with a terrible, terrible case of mono. I mean, so bad that I had to go to the hospital; it was attacking my liver, and so my liver wasn't working correctly or something. It sucked. If you've ever kicked amphetamines, and if you've ever had a bad case of mono, well, imagine trying to put the two together.
So, needless to say, I was bed-ridden for nearly a month with my bills piling up. I got back to work, but it was tough because I came down with a real bad case of chronic fatigue syndrome. The depression that had come with kicking the amphetamines and might have gone away was now the depression that came with chronic fatigue syndrome. I never had a break. I was slipping up at school, missing classes, missing work.
I said that I was finishing up school, right? Well, eventually, I had to begin my student teaching, and this was the last thing I had to do before graduating. Now, anyone who has ever done student teaching knows that it's difficult to work part-time because of all your responsibilities to the program, so I worked minimal hours.
Well, student teaching didn't go as planned, and unfairly, I felt. (The only problem that my mentors had with me was my organization, and I felt that they had it out for me from the very beginning.) I came to the realization that, well, I likely wouldn't pass student teaching... even after all I had put into it. (They flat-out told me I would probably not pass.)
So, having all these bills to pay, exhausted, working minimal hours, and looking like I wouldn't pass student teaching... I quit, quit everything. I walked away from student teaching, walked away from school, stopped paying my bills, got a couple part-time gigs, and even with that little bit of money coming in... well, I would just look at it and say, "fuck it! It's not even enough to pay the minimum payment on one of my credit cards." So, I found some way to piss that money away because it just didn't seem to matter anymore... and drugs fit the bill nicely.
I had been taking opiates pretty regularly, but I gave up taking everything, amphetamines, opiates, everything for student teaching. I wanted to do it entirely on my own without amphetamines or opiates or anything else... and it wasn't all that hard, really, because I loved teaching. Then, once teaching went to shit, I got back into drugs almost as though I had something to prove. I was really, really bitter.
And so now, here I am, still working two part-time jobs; my car needs an oil-change and I've been riding on a doughnut for the past month and a half; I haven't payed any of my bills, really; I spend all of my money on stupid shit, usually dope; and I just don't care. I don't feel depressed at all. I just don't care...
Everyone tells me, "Go back to school! Try student teaching again!" It's not that easy. I don't even have the money or the means to attempt student teaching again, not even if I really wanted to. I don't even feel motivated to try it again; nothing seems to matter to me. I feel like I really noticed that change in my attitude after the whole kicking-amphetamines-and-suffering-through-mono thing. It was like, I realized how quickly everything you have and everything you've worked for can be taken from you. Failing student teaching was just the icing on the cake, really, the cherry on top that all but proved it to be true.
What's wrong with me? Is it depression, even though I don't feel depressed? Is it just my new, apathetic attitude and outlook on life? What is it?
EDIT: So much for being brief. Sorry.