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JointsNRoaches

JointsNRoaches

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What up.

I know this girl, a very good friend of mine that knows I smoke and wants to try it with me. I was thinking this time should be different to smoking with the guys and was thinkin of the best way to introduce her to it. Obviously Il make sure she only has a little bit to begin with and all that. Im reffering more to the atmosphere and things we can do, she has as good as said to me that she wants to see the sensual side rather than the party, goofy side.

There is a park near my house, really big and open with a few trees around its edges. I was thinking of taking her down there one night, bringing some music and some stuff to eat and drink and chilling under the trees there. Australian skies are second to none after dark. Does that sound like a good idea or do you have something else in mind? Being at my place is usually not possible because of parents.

Any ideas?
Js&Rs
 
The park sounds pretty cool, nice chilled out place to have a few tokes. Don't see why it should be any different when you introduce a girl to MJ though?
 
Just because typically when i/we introduce a dude to smokin weed we'l get a load of goofy movies, teach him how to hit the bong ect. The aim of the game is too get as fucked up as possible but thats not what she wants per say.
 
Sounds like a good plan.

Just remember to focus on what she wants out of the experience (comfortable, fun, safe) and not what you may want (romantic/sensual evening under beautiful night skies). She may experience weed's "sensual side" . . but she may also experience it's hungry, goofy, anxious or lazy sides too.
 
^^^ definately. the way i see it i cant lose no matter how she reacts. I love the lazy goofy side to smokin weed but i can also enjoy what she is talking about.
 
hmm...if its a party i would try to make sure no one else tries to tag along

may add up to paranoia

sounds like a good plan tho man. make a playlist/cd of her favorite music and go off to a place that isnt too dark - last thing you want is a first-time smoker to think there's a monster in the woods... 8)

edit: oh yea, when i introduced my gf to weed - she just got really quiet and enjoyed the CEV's. Imo, getting high together makes for the best date ever.
 
JointsNRoaches said:
There is a park near my house, really big and open with a few trees around its edges. I was thinking of taking her down there one night, bringing some music and some stuff to eat and drink and chilling under the trees there. Australian skies are second to none after dark. Does that sound like a good idea or do you have something else in mind? Being at my place is usually not possible because of parents.
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No. This is a stupid idea.

What if some other people come along and want to smoke your weed? They might beat you up. How humiliating for you if the girl saw that.

Please tell me you at least have a car? I know you're from Perth, so hopefully you know some of the good lookout spots up in the hills. Yes, some of them are patrolled irregularly by the cops, but not all of them...

You know what would be really cool? If you could get a hotel or something to smoke at. Just a cheap one in Belmont or something. Hope you're over eighteen.

Honestly though, it would be best if you did it during an evening at her or your house when the parents go out for dinner or something.

In the end though, all these situations are going to fail to a certain extent, because there will always be that feeling of paranoia wherever you go.
 
Sounds like a good time. Don't forget a drink.

JointsNRoaches said:
Australian skies are second to none after dark.
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Not to rain on your parade, but if you ever have a chance, watching Aura Borealis (Northern Lights) while smoking some fat BC bud, is positively breathtaking as well :)
 
From a female perspective, that sounds pretty cool if I was sort of into the guy. Are you two going down the path of romance? Because if a man smoked me up on a starlight picnic, I'm pretty sure I would begin to feel special toward him. On the other hand, if we were trying to remain friends, the setting might make me feel strange.

If you want to keep it more friends-oriented, maybe something more like a movie (in your house if that would be possible at all). Otherwise, just chilling in the park without the picnic affair would take the romantic emphasis off.

Have fun!
 
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What if some other people come along and want to smoke your weed? They might beat you up. How humiliating for you if the girl saw that.
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What?

Please tell me you at least have a car? I know you're from Perth, so hopefully you know some of the good lookout spots up in the hills. Yes, some of them are patrolled irregularly by the cops, but not all of them...
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Shady.

You know what would be really cool? If you could get a hotel or something to smoke at. Just a cheap one in Belmont or something. Hope you're over eighteen.
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Skeezy.

Honestly though, it would be best if you did it during an evening at her or your house when the parents go out for dinner or something.
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Teenage as hell.


Strange that you're more worried about him getting randomly beat up in a park for not sharing his weed with hypothetical strangers than getting busted by the cops, busted by parents or treating her like a cheap prostitute.
 
Honestly, if you aren't planning on a relationship or anything and are just casual friends, I think it would be the best to just find a spot, chill out for a bit, and then go meet other mutual friends. If you aren't particularly close, it may feel a bit strange..

And most importantly, as was previously mentioned, DO NOT DO NOT get her really, really high. If your stuff is quality, which I hope it is, one or two hits from even a one-hitter should be fine for her.

edit: Apparently she is a very good friend. In that case, maybe take her out for coffee. If there is a shop that you can comfortably walk to and is quiet and secluded, it may be more comfortable than a park.

Really though, only you know your friend. You should be able to decide the best course of action.
 
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make sure that you dont romanticize drugs around her. smoking some weed is harmless, but you dont want to turn her into a feind. keep in mind that she may be impressionable.
 
Smoke with some mutual friends that you know would respect her if possible. If not, just you two would be better than having an unwanted person.
 
JointsNRoaches said:
There is a park near my house, really big and open with a few trees around its edges. I was thinking of taking her down there one night, bringing some music and some stuff to eat and drink and chilling under the trees there. Australian skies are second to none after dark. Does that sound like a good idea
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from a girl's perspective i think this is a fine idea. beautiful outdoor surroundings, music, drinks, snacks, some guy i presumably think is cool... what's not to like? i definitely approve of the weed picnic.
 
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Lol, thanks.

Um, as for us leading into romance, its been a posibility and at the moment it looks likely. She actually said to me that she wanted it to be just me because of feeling over crowded which is why i went for the big open space. I also think its down to a matter of trust. If anything were to happen, i think she'd trust me over any other smokers she knows. This park isnt like the woods or anything, just a big field with a few shade trees. Theres's also light at the end near a car park, it wont be anywhere near us but because the space is so open it will be far from pitch black.

DoctorShop, although your ideas are good, i dont think iv ever seen cops anywhere near my house since i moved there and even if they did approach us i doubt she'l touch anywhere near a gram. I only expect her to want a few tokes from a joint to begin with. Small fine for anything under 30g which isnt bad but is also very unlikely to happen. Btw, not quite 18 my friend so the hotel isnt possible.

Thanks for the ideas everyone, keep em comin.
 
I think your idea is fine.. I haven't been to Perth, I'm from QLD. but I'm sure there are ample spots to go and chill.

I would recommend going hiking or something with her and finding a secluded place (not too far away though, she could freak out)... just roll a few small joints so you don't get her too stoned and can smoke another if need be. A pipe could be even better as there is less continuous smoke to give your site away.

Or wait for a night when your parents aren't around and invite her over.. the benefits of this are obvious ;)
 
op did u hit that?

Oh also your plans pretty good but just make sure u dont get eaten by a crocodile, niischhh.
 
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