tismeyousee
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- Nov 4, 2010
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a friend of mine, whom i had been with for three years, recently died from oding and hitting his head. he bled out all over his bathroom floor.
we were great friends for a couple of years, together for three.. i was a heroin addict, he wasnt. on our first anniversary, he asked me what i wanted to do. my response was 'shoot up with me.' i got pregnant a couple years later and had to get clean.. he wasnt able to so we split up. we gave our daughter up for adoption.. open. we stayed the best of friends over the next several years. and we were very much both still in love with the other. we decided not to be together while our children still depended on us. neither one of us believed we would stay clean if we were together.
i'm telling you this just to let you know that i expected to spend the rest of my life with him. and he died because he met me.
i dont know how to deal with this. i dont know how long i'm going to feel like i'm the walking dead. it's been four months. i'm no longer clean but i'm being responsible about it. i guess i just need advice.
how do you come to terms with this? yes, the guilt.. but much more, the loss. i dont believe in god. i dont believe that he exists somewhere, anywhere. yet i absolutely cannot imagine never speaking to him, touching him, hearing his voice.....how long will this last?
we were great friends for a couple of years, together for three.. i was a heroin addict, he wasnt. on our first anniversary, he asked me what i wanted to do. my response was 'shoot up with me.' i got pregnant a couple years later and had to get clean.. he wasnt able to so we split up. we gave our daughter up for adoption.. open. we stayed the best of friends over the next several years. and we were very much both still in love with the other. we decided not to be together while our children still depended on us. neither one of us believed we would stay clean if we were together.
i'm telling you this just to let you know that i expected to spend the rest of my life with him. and he died because he met me.
i dont know how to deal with this. i dont know how long i'm going to feel like i'm the walking dead. it's been four months. i'm no longer clean but i'm being responsible about it. i guess i just need advice.
how do you come to terms with this? yes, the guilt.. but much more, the loss. i dont believe in god. i dont believe that he exists somewhere, anywhere. yet i absolutely cannot imagine never speaking to him, touching him, hearing his voice.....how long will this last?