...to enter a club with your girlfriend (or wife or whatever) and have all sorts of curious eyes admiring you (and especially your girl) as by far the most beautiful absolutely stunning...
You look around smiling and sure enough you can't find anyone more beautiful than your partner, simply there is no urge or desire toward other girls, no pressure to meet or comment on anyone. You just start to dance and kiss your girl and then go over to the bar where other guys and even the barman try to befriend you asking advice how they can pick up a girl like that. Soon even the club owner is there just to affirm that the structure is on your disposal for every kind of request you might have and to politely invite you personally for the next "mega vip" night.
The same scene repeats over and over again in the daily life, you look around and there is no need to compare anything to anyone, there is no drive toward other "better" opportunities or resentment of any kind; just a relaxing feeling of quiet superiority while you're gliding across your day with a big smile and a wonderful partner.
I asked once the same question to my gf, in exactly the same, direct form as stated here; she did not get the question so I had to give up discussing it and cemented my opinion that partners which truly understand me are nowhere nearby.
You look around smiling and sure enough you can't find anyone more beautiful than your partner, simply there is no urge or desire toward other girls, no pressure to meet or comment on anyone. You just start to dance and kiss your girl and then go over to the bar where other guys and even the barman try to befriend you asking advice how they can pick up a girl like that. Soon even the club owner is there just to affirm that the structure is on your disposal for every kind of request you might have and to politely invite you personally for the next "mega vip" night.
The same scene repeats over and over again in the daily life, you look around and there is no need to compare anything to anyone, there is no drive toward other "better" opportunities or resentment of any kind; just a relaxing feeling of quiet superiority while you're gliding across your day with a big smile and a wonderful partner.
I asked once the same question to my gf, in exactly the same, direct form as stated here; she did not get the question so I had to give up discussing it and cemented my opinion that partners which truly understand me are nowhere nearby.