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VDUBNBUD

VDUBNBUD

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Always hear about those guys that just smoke weed all day and piss away their lives. While certainly not there, I think I'm slowly become one of those guys. Never mind you that my grades are pretty good in a sorta challenging major but I feel like all I do is burn. Go to class... the whole time think about getting the fuck out... get home... light up a blunt... go back to class... come home.. light up a bowl... and when the weekends come around, just go out with the gf and friends and get fucked up whether it is clubbin or bars with weed here and there.

I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way. Like, damn life aint bad, but can't say I'm doing shit...... I mean yeah, I'm getting school done with pretty good grades, work is alright... I guess... but all I do is sit back and burn... maybe I just need a break or something...

I feel like the more I continue doing this I am just going to hit a point where I'm like fuck school and work and start fuckin up.... idunno....
 
Been there several times before.

Once you notice this happening, though, you can actually combat it. Just chill out for a little while. A week'd even be good for you to lay off the herbal.


Sometimes it's good to sober up and clear your thoughts of the haze that constant smoking'll cloud your mind with. Let's you stand back and really reassess whatever shit you might be going through.
 
Its just your mind fucking with you, maybe even the drugs. I honestly really hate to see these types of discussion amongst people who are still in in the age range of 18-30. I feel constant smoking day in and day out can really fuck with your head, you just gotta be tough and control life. Drugs will fuck with you, but during your younger years is when they are the most fun, cherish the time you spend sitting around smoking with the people you like. They might not be there forever and these are the memories you will want to look back on when you cant even get an erection in your wheelchair while your in the old folks home.

What did I really just say though.
 
I have the same kind of thing happening to me and I don't want to start another thread because I think this might be helpful to OP also.

Since the beginning of june I smoked weed everyday and was smoking around 2gs/day with my bong during all summer. Now since I go to school I blaze only when I come back at night. I live the same kind of lifestyle as yours but maybe in a more moderate way.

Altough I feel sometimes that weed is really bad for me and I should stop, but I don't know if it's just my mind tripping. Do you consider as "bad" smoking every night?

I am thinking of a break also because I am seeing myself becoming one of those stereotyped pothead. Just want your thoughts on this.
 
If you think you need a break, just take a fucking break, man. There's always gonna be weed to come back to when the break's over.


It's not a life or death situation or anything.
 
Jibult said:
If you think you need a break, just take a fucking break, man. There's always gonna be weed to come back to when the break's over.


It's not a life or death situation or anything.
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QFT. You motherfuckers sound like drug addicts!

It's like coffee... or cigarettes... or soda... or fat people and candy... it becomes second nature and it loses it's novelty and becomes something you feel you have to ingest.

Take a break if it's bothering you that much then go back to it. It's not going anywhere. It's good to take a tolerance break, period. I recommend at least 4 a year. One every 3 months for about a week. (Cleansing diets in this time help a lot too, but that's a whole 'nother thread.) It's amazing how well it works for me. My thought process resets itself and I regain focus pretty quickly. As well the weed is even better than when I stopped. ;)
 
VDUBNBUD said:
Always hear about those guys that just smoke weed all day and piss away their lives. While certainly not there, I think I'm slowly become one of those guys. Never mind you that my grades are pretty good in a sorta challenging major but I feel like all I do is burn. Go to class... the whole time think about getting the fuck out... get home... light up a blunt... go back to class... come home.. light up a bowl... and when the weekends come around, just go out with the gf and friends and get fucked up whether it is clubbin or bars with weed here and there.

I was just wondering if anyone else felt this way. Like, damn life aint bad, but can't say I'm doing shit...... I mean yeah, I'm getting school done with pretty good grades, work is alright... I guess... but all I do is sit back and burn... maybe I just need a break or something...

I feel like the more I continue doing this I am just going to hit a point where I'm like fuck school and work and start fuckin up.... idunno....
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dude i know the feeling. when stoners ask what i've been up to, i don't even got to tell them. when people who don't smoke ask how i've been keeping myself busy i'm like "SMOKE A LOT OF FUCKING WEED" in my head and usually just wind up saying shit like "just been working". i guess i work a lot, 50-70+hrs a week on average and i haven't had any problems at work, but i still get that feeling that i could be that much better if i didn't smoke. i hate to admit it but smoking weed is my favorite pass time. other than sex i don't think there is anything i like more than the feeling of twisting up a blunt and sparking it.

i used to trip about this shit more when i wasn't working, when i was literally "one of those guys" that sat around and smoked life away. when i work though i feel a lot more accomplished, and fuck i can support and take care of myself so the hell can people say? i don't htink a break is what you need, i think you just need something fresh in your life. some goals to strive for and things to look forward to. you might have to cut back or take a break from smoking to achieve these things, but personally i don't think weed is the problem here. do you exercise or have any hobbies?
 
if you have that much free time, find something other than weed to occupy like an hour of it a day. exercise, read books, club sports, etc.

smoking weed all the time won't kill you, or even necessarily ruin your life, but if it's all you do then you will quickly become very bored and very boring.
 
what you should do is just smoke on the weekends. or smoke at the end of the day to chill out and relax. i was in your situatuon too when all i would do if i wasnt working or at school was smoke. i got rreally tired of it and now i dont smoke at all. its actually nice and you avoid alot of trouble, and money issues, smoking all day everyday is expensive.
 
check the MEGA quitting thread... tons of others in there feel the same way you do. I know I have at points.

Learn some self-control, that's really all there is to it.
 
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