Congratulations!
On July 3rd, I celebrated two months being smoke-free myself! Awesome feeling, isn't it? I have been chewing the nicotine gum, and it has made a great deal of difference in my success. No, it doesn't completely erase the cravings for a real smoky delicious hit of tar & nicotine, but it helps. A couple times I *almost* caved and went to take a puff, but I resisted and never once cheated. If you wait 5 or 10 minutes, the acute craving will subside. What I do is busy myself with a task, and that helps a lot. Two years ago, when I quit opiates, doing laundry was my therapy, LOL, and it has also proved helpful in ditching the smoking habit.
I think perhaps my cold turkey opiate w/d experience somewhat made quitting smoking easier, once I got serious and decided it was time. Although it has been a little rough in patches here and there, it has got NOTHING and I mean zip, zilch, zero, nada...on quitting the opiates. That was
agonizing; this quitting smoking is merely
trying, at least to me. (I know some people have had a much more difficult time than I have had, and I don't discount their experiences; I am merely outlining my
own experience.)
So yeah, here I am, 67 days smoke-free, but I know I'm not anywhere close to being out of the woods yet. I am going to continue chewing the gum for a couple or three more weeks, as long as it takes, till I can safely say I don't need it anymore.
Also, I have stated to several people that, if I ever would choose to drink on any given occasion, I reserve the right to smoke as I do so. (I have not had a beer in almost a year, so this isn't anything I do with any frequency, obviously.) That being said, I have no plans in the immediate future to have a beer, so this is only an if-then scenario, not something I am proactively planning. I had thought about it on the 4th of July, just cracking a few beers while we grilled out and lit fireworks, but then I decided the not smoking thing is still way too new and fresh, and I could jeopardize all my progress and hard work if I were to do so. Thus, it will be awhile before I do, if ever.
When do y'all find that you most miss having a cigarette? For me, it is while talking on the phone or getting in my car to drive somewhere. So much of smoking is habit, not just physical addiction, (as with drugs, alcohol, or pretty much anything else, I suppose), and that is almost as hard to contend with as the physical addiction.
Anyway, best wishes to the OP and to everyone who is making this postive life-change choice. If anyone wants to talk about it, share advice, get advice, commisserate, etc., feel free to PM me!
Y'all take care and keep fighting the good fight!
Justine