I love my Mom!!!!

bean_geek

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Tonight I told my mom about the rave scene and all about ecstasy. First I started out with how the media really picks on the rave scene. She said kinda like the "flower children" or hippies. Then I started to talk about ecstasy. I went in to detail about it and then she asked do you do it? I said yes I do. But before she asked I told her all about it. How it makes you feel and everything.She wasn't mad at all she asked me so if I went to a rave how would they act around me. I said they would be SO nice to you. She was just so understanding. I don't think that she will come and rave with me or eat a pill with me but she knows what I do and she understands and that still means more to me. I still want her to blow up with me but I think that it's wishful thinking. I love my mom so much and I happy that she knows what I do and she accepts it.
Tara
 
WOW ! I guess you just recieved a "miracle" , cause i know from our talks , it hasn't been the best of times....
hope this is a new start for you two.
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Even though she would never say it, I know for a fact my mother does more shit then I do. Kind of makes me proud in a way knowing I come from a long line of hardcore partyers. hehe
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PLUR to all
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my mother was totally cool about it also. one day, out of the blue she asked me to tell her all about the rave scene.
so we sat down for about 2 hours. I told her everything. we even sat there and compared X to the drugs she has tried in the past. after we were done comparing, she said this, "Damn I wish I was a 20 years old again so that I can try it."
What I loved most about our conversation was she ended it by saying, "Now all because I don't seem angry about you using drugs, I still don't agree with it. But I don't want you to be afraid of me, and if you EVER need help with dealing with them, just come to me."
I love my mom too!!
you all went off and made me cry now =)
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This is off topic, I know..
I wonder how I would respond if my child (if I eventually get myself around to find a man good enough for me - JK) came up to me one day and told me he/she did drugs??
For starters, I'm not sure if I would've told about my own experiences with drugs (and I've done a lot over the years, believe me). Nor if I would encourage further usage for "my little baby" (I'm getting all emotional here).
But I believe (or at least I like to think so) I would be able to discuss this with my child with an open mind, telling him/her that moderation is everything. How knowledge is power and allthough drugs can enlighten you in so many ways they are in fact a hazard to your health if not treated with respect.
Any inputs on this??
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Wow! You guys are pretty fortunate to have understanding parents. My mom and dad overheard me on the phone one day and then broke into my email and it was all over...They knew everything. Things were really bad for awhile but I was partying too hard, too much...My parents and I could not talk, I moved out, and my mom could not stand the sight of me...All this from a woman I had helped recover from being suicidal..We had been everything to each other...Then I realized that she was right to be worried...But she doesnt understand moderation...Since I have moved out, I only party once every 4-6 weeks and my mom has no idea. We are best friends again and I spend a lot of my free time with her...I tell her everything...except about those occassional weekends...I know things were so bad between us because she cares about me so much...As frustrating as it is, it is nice to have someone love you that much...You know what I am saying???
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Have fun and be careful!
Meg
 
Oooh me too, me too. My parents still say that they do wish I didn't indulge, and my dad (who I respect a ton) said he thought I could be doing better things with my money, but that he wasted money on frivolities when he was my age and he wasn't going to stop me. They know pretty much everything that I do/have done, and they say so long as I don't fuck things up again and keep control of it they're not going to try and run my life. It's such a lifted burden when you don't have to hide anything anymore.
~*~ Ashke ~*~
 
My mum has no idea that i use ecstacy or any other drugs (or so i like to think, but we all know that parents are not that dimwitted)
But she does know all about raves, as i tell her all about my weekends and the parties i go to. Shes very much into the music and will happily dance around the house with me or turn up the stereo in the car with some really good music on. Im still waiting for her to come with me to one! Shes what most people call old (in her 50's, i think thats young) and still knows how to party!
Mums are beautiful! but what about dads?
no-one has mentioned dads yet, and my dad is the sweetest, most caring and talented man i know. *sniff* I love my mum and dad!
Andromeda
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