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I have a severe drug fetish... Help me?

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DrugFetishGuy

DrugFetishGuy

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Hey, I'm new here and I have a rather odd, and rather strong attraction to women who use drugs. Any drugs really, but things smoked, snorted and shot are my favorite. I hope I am not breaking any rules by asking this, but are there any women who would be willing to help me out with this? I don't want to get too specific on the main forum area, but I'm more interested in what might be considered a 'model' type situation? If any girls are interested in something like this, please by God message me personally. I feel like the world completely ignores people like me. I would have more success if I had a poop fetish or I was into bestiality, every damn fetish seems to have 34857 websites dedicated to it but this one. :(

Just to make it clear, I am not looking for a date, girlfriend and I am not looking to meet anyone in person. I am looking for a strictly online arrangement where media is traded for monetary compensation.

Here is a link to what I feel describes my fetish the best: http://girlsgettingwasted.blogspot.com/p/about-intoxication-fetish.html
 
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I'm sorry this is causing you so much distress, I can understand how it would be hard. Can I suggest that you find someone at least willing to indulge your fantasy by pretending to shoot up or otherwise get high? Or would that just not do it? My concern isn't the fetish itself, which doesn't sound immoral or anything (it's just a desire, and it's not like you wanna kill someone), more that if it's what it takes to get you aroused, then you might be setting you and your prospective girlfriend up for serious addiction problems in the future.

I'm not a mod, but I don't think you are allowed to ask that sort of question here, no. Meeting up over Bluelight generally isn't a good idea, and people don't generally come here looking for dates, especially considering that your fetish sounds pretty obscure. On that note though, I'd have a hard time believing your the only one. In fact it probably has a name, and there probably are online communities if you look hard enough. Can I suggest you start with Fetlife? I'm almost certain you'll find others there who have your interests, and would be willing to help you with them, whether that's with a relationship or just by talking about it. All the best.
 
Thanks for your reply. No, the simulation would not do it. And I am not looking to meet anyone. I am looking for an arrangement where money is traded for media over the internet. The fetish is rare, no doubt, but it is not unheard of. Here is a really good description of it (http://girlsgettingwasted.blogspot.com/p/about-intoxication-fetish.html). And yes, I've been to fetlife and every other outlet available, trying to find anything for me. This is the best I've come up with and it's something that I've done with a few different girls I've met through Tumblr and stuff.
 
Ah okay, my apologies for misunderstanding. It's a hard arrangement to come to, especially since most people doing drugs would have some trepidation about recording themselves doing something illegal and sending the video to someone over the internet. If I may ask, why didn't Fetlife work for you? I've seen dozens of groups there related to drug use, it seems odd to me that none of that helped.
 
do you have any idea why?

like do you feel it might be cuz you wanna be the one to 'help' them n what not

you think it might be cuz you wanna use with em/ are attracted to using drugs with attractive women (kinda like the rock star lifestyle thing or what not)

you think you might like 'bad girls'

do you have any ideas as what might be about

or you think its just cut n dry chicks that use turn me on? cuz i feel like this has to stem from something or have some sort of other basis, but of course i could be wrong, i usually am
 
The funny thing is there are about 30,000 videos of people smoking weed on YouTube. No one, ever, is going to be convicted of anything because of a video of them getting high. It's impossible to prove that what they are using is even a real drug. But I understand that people are worried that the video would turn up somewhere and a family member or friend would see it. Although I would never ever share with anyone. As far as Fetlife is concerned, I joined groups and searched all over the place for someone who would be interested in helping me and honestly just couldn't find anything. I don't know why but I never had any takers but it's going on 3 months and notta.

As to your questions HighonLife, I know I like bad girls. I have no interest in using anything myself, I have never done any drugs and I don't even drink. It's all visual for me. The best advice to understand it is to check the link I posted above. I just like bad girls who do bad things. I also have a smoking fetish and love girls who drink and party and whatnot. It's all tied into that. Haha :)
 
I suggest you get a hold of yourself - this kind of compulsive behaviour is very unhealthy. SELF CONTROL is what you need, and possibly finding a fuck buddy, instead of exploiting people for your fetishes.

Liking your girl to share recreational drug use is one thing, but you don't even do these drugs yourself - it's exploitation, watching those girls you posted getting baked and jilling off was hot - but fetishes are an unhealthy psychological defect which should be remedied as quickly as possible, not perpetuated.
 
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Huh? It's not compulsive at all. It's a fetish and most people have one or two (or three). I really did not expect judgement from a place like this... disappointing indeed.
 
You asked for judgement, or more importantly advice - I am giving you sound advice - just because it is not what you want to hear does not make it invalid.

Oh no wait you weren't looking for advice - you were posting something which is going to get closed down pretty soon, as this isn't the place for dating. Good luck getting over your unhealthy attachment, mate.

PS Fetishes are compulsive...always.
 
Exploitation? That would imply I was taking advantage of someone in an unethical way, which I am not. I find someone who enjoys something and pay them for sharing it with me. And we're just going to have to disagree on your assessment of fetishes being unhealthy psychological defects. Anyone I've ever gotten to know well has eventually been revealed to have some sort of sexual kink. It's judgmental and close-minded people like you who perpetuate the negative stigma associated with these kinks and spread shame and intolerance. If people were more accepting of the different ways we experience sexual satisfaction I feel like that would be the most psychologically healthy step in promoting understanding and combating fear and misinformation.

Everyone is different man. I'd put everything I own on the fact that you have something that others would think was kinky or peculiar that turns you on. But you seem more like the type who would suppress something like that and deny it, even to yourself. Or maybe you're one of the blessed 'normal people' who only finds attraction in the woman as a whole and any focus on any part of her as something separate is a distraction for you. To which I say, good for you man! But sorry to say that you are in the very acute minority. If anyone with a sexual kink or fetish is a psychologically defective human being, than most of us are defective, unfortunately.
 
And no, you clearly did not read my post closely, I do not want a date. You seem like an intolerable asshole, if I do say so myself. Good luck getting over that, mate.
 
I'm going to close this OP as we don't allow this sort of thread on Bluelight. You can read the BLUA (link at the very bottom of the page) for a better idea.
Feel free to open a new thread specifically about that fetish and what you can do to help it if you want, but this isn't the place to come look for monetary arrangements.
 
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